Gigolo in Nieuwegein

Quiet living, close to everything

Nieuwegein was built for pleasant living. Wide streets, plenty of green, water running through the neighborhoods and enough parking. For a date that is handier than it sounds. I can come and go here without a car standing in the way anywhere or anyone wondering whose it is.

And the city of Utrecht is ten minutes away on the fast tram. If you would rather not meet in your own neighborhood (very understandable), you are completely anonymous there within fifteen minutes.

What we can do together

Walking along the Merwede Canal or the Lek, with a view of the shipping. Vreeswijk, the old village on the river, a few degrees quieter than the rest of the municipality. Park Oudegein for a loop of green. And in the Stadshart plenty of chances for a drink without it becoming an event.

Or we skip the lead-up. If you find the waiting mostly makes you nervous, sitting somewhere quiet straight away is a fine choice.

Who I come here for

For married women where the conversation about this has long since stopped. For women who live alone after a divorce in a house that feels too big. For women with a partner who is present but long ago stopped looking. For women who have never experienced any of this and would rather do it on their own terms.

I do not judge, I assume nothing, and I do nothing you have not asked for yourself. The overview is at my services.

Arriving discreetly

No flowers, no loud greeting at the door, no fuss in the gallery. I park where you want, even if that is a good way off. I work alone, so your details pass no agency or middleman anywhere, and I discuss you with no one.

If you live in an apartment where the corridor is empty, home is often fine. If you share a stairwell with someone who sees everything, a hotel is more comfortable. In Utrecht or Nieuwegein itself.

For couples

Some of the messages I get from this area come from couples. Sometimes because one of the two can or will no longer do something, sometimes out of pure curiosity, sometimes because it has been fantasized about for years without anything happening.

That can go any number of ways. Watching, joining in, or sitting in the next room. What matters to me there is that the two of you have really talked it through together, and that each of you can hit the brakes at any moment. More on that is at my services.

Practical

From Amsterdam it is three-quarters of an hour. You hear the travel costs beforehand, before anything is fixed. No surcharges for evenings, nights, weekends or public holidays, and booking as a couple costs nothing extra. More practical questions? Look at the frequently asked questions.

How a first date goes

First a few messages go back and forth. I want to know a few things, so do you, and during that exchange it clicks. Would you rather hear how someone sounds first? Then we pick up the phone. Want a coffee first with nothing else happening, in Utrecht if you like, where you meet no one? Then we do that.

We start that day calmly. First sitting, first talking, and the rest comes only when you are ready. For most women that first part runs longer than expected, and that is fine.

Afterwards you hear nothing, unless you are the first. No text asking “how was it”, no reminder months later, no newsletter.

Doubts I hear a lot

“Does paying for this not feel strange?” No. You are paying for time and attention from someone who takes the work seriously, the same as with a masseur or a coach.

“What if I am nervous and dare nothing?” Then it becomes talking, and that is fine. Nothing has to be reached.

“What if I want to stop halfway?” Then we stop, and that is that. Nothing has to be explained.

What you can expect from me

I am there at the agreed time, well-groomed. Beyond that I mostly listen, without giving direction. I am not shocked. The pace is yours. And I discuss you with no one, ever.

This is how it starts

A short message is enough. Where you are, what you are after, when you could. I usually reply within a day and after that we go on at your pace. Calling first is fine, a coffee first with no obligation too.

Get in touch, and together we find a moment that fits.