Gigolo in Zoetermeer

Practically located

Zoetermeer was built to function, and you notice it: wide roads, roomy parking, everything easy to reach. For an appointment that’s handier than it sounds. I can come and go here without a parking problem arising somewhere or someone wondering whose car that is.

From Amsterdam it’s about an hour. If you’d rather be in a bigger city, The Hague is ten minutes and Rotterdam twenty. Many women choose that, simply because unfamiliar surroundings feel more comfortable.

What we can do together

The Westerpark and the Buytenpark lie on the edge of the city. Enough green to walk an hour without running into anyone. At the Zoetermeerse Plas you can walk along the water. In the Stadshart you’ll find plenty of places to eat or drink something without it becoming an event. And the Dorpsstraat part still has something of the old village that once stood there.

If you’d rather sit somewhere quiet right away, that’s just as good a plan. The lead-up is there for you, not for me.

Who I come to Zoetermeer for

Zoetermeer is a city of families, commuters and people who chose the calm here on purpose. I see that back in what I hear. Women who are married and haven’t been touched the way they want in years. Women who’ve just divorced and live in a house that’s suddenly too big. Women with a partner who’s present but stopped looking long ago.

I don’t judge, nothing shocks me and I assume nothing. What you’re looking for you decide yourself, and that may change along the way. The forms it can take are listed at my services.

Home or elsewhere

Home is fine, especially if you live freely and no one’s watching. If you live in a terrace where the curtains move the moment an unfamiliar car stops, a hotel is more comfortable. There are options in and around the city, and in The Hague or Rotterdam many more.

I arrive the way you want. No flowers, no loud greeting, and I park where you find it comfortable, two streets away if need be.

Practical

Travel costs depend on the distance and you hear them beforehand. Surcharges for evening, night, weekend or holiday don’t exist with me, and booking as a couple costs no extra. Want to know more about the practical side? Look at the frequently asked questions.

How a first meeting goes

It starts with messaging. I ask some questions, you ask some questions, and somewhere in that conversation you notice for yourself whether it feels right. If you’d rather a voice than a screen, we call. If you first want a coffee with nothing else happening, in The Hague if need be, where you run into no one. Then we do that.

The day itself starts calmly. First sitting and talking, and only when you’re ready does the rest come. That first part lasts longer for most women than they’d scheduled, and that time is well spent.

After that you hear nothing more from me, unless you want it. No “how was it”, no little message six months on.

What it isn’t

There’s no agency and no catalog. No one sits between us: you write me, I write back, and I’m also the one who rings the bell. Nothing is checked off in advance.

And you don’t have to perform. No looking like someone off the internet, nothing to prove, and nothing to apologize for.

What you can expect from me

I’m on time and well-groomed. Listening without pushing you anywhere is what most of my work consists of. Nothing shocks me, whatever you tell or ask. The pace is up to you, and it may turn along the way. And I discuss you with no one.

This is how it starts

A short message is enough: where you are, what you’re looking for and when you could. I usually reply within a day and after that we continue at your pace. Calling first is possible, a coffee first with no obligation too.

Get in touch, and we’ll look together at what fits.