Gigolo in Rotterdam

Rotterdam makes it easy

There is something about this city that makes this kind of date simpler. People from Rotterdam are level-headed, they do not bat an eye and they mind their own business. You walk into a hotel and the receptionist has already seen a hundred people that day. Nobody whispers, nobody looks round.

For me Rotterdam is an hour by train from Amsterdam. Easy enough, even midweek. I like to plan a few days ahead, so I have plenty of time and do not arrive out of breath.

What an evening here can be

The city has scale. The Erasmus Bridge at night, the Kop van Zuid with the light on the water, the Markthal when you want to see something without it turning into a museum visit. Dinner up high with a view over the harbour. Or the opposite, a small café in Delfshaven where time stopped ten years ago.

Many women want to do something first to take the edge off. Others skip that and meet straight away. Both work. You do not have to know in advance, and you can change your mind along the way. That is not a problem, that is simply how it goes.

Who I come to Rotterdam for

For women who work hard and have nobody at home who asks how they are doing. For women in a relationship where the touching stopped long ago, with no argument behind it. Women who have just divorced and wonder whether they still can. Women left on their own. And women who have never experienced any of this and think the train has gone. It has not.

And for couples, where one of you watches, joins in, or is simply nearby. What is possible is set out under my services, from touch and skin hunger to a BDSM date if you want to go further.

Where we meet

Hotels are everywhere, from sleek and modern on the Kop van Zuid to classic in the centre. In Rotterdam that is nearly always the easiest route, and it saves you tidying your house. Home works too, of course, especially in an apartment where the hallway is empty.

I arrive discreetly. No flowers, no loud greeting, no fuss in the lift. If you want us to meet in the lobby rather than in the room, we do that. And if you would rather I only ring the bell once you give the word, fine.

Practical

Travel costs depend on the distance and you know them beforehand. No surcharge for the evening, the night, the weekend or public holidays. Booking as a couple costs nothing extra. More practical questions are answered at the frequently asked questions.

How a first date goes

It starts with messages. I ask questions, you ask questions, and somewhere in between it becomes clear. If we call first, we call first. If you would rather begin with just a conversation somewhere, we do that. It happens regularly and it is a fine start.

On the day itself it starts calmly. First we sit down and talk. The rest follows only if you say so. For most women that first part lasts longer than they had expected. That is not wasted time. That is exactly where it lives.

Afterwards no message comes, unless you want one. No little “how was it” text, no reminder a few months on, no newsletter.

What it is not

It is not an agency with a catalogue where you pick a face. Nobody sits in between. The same person reads, answers and shows up. No list of acts gets ticked off in advance, and I do not work from a script.

And it is not a performance where you have to prove something. You do not have to look like someone on the internet, and there is nothing to apologise for. Not your body, not your age, not what you want.

This is how it starts

With a message. Where you are, what you are after, when you could. Short is fine, two sentences. I usually reply within a day and after that we go on at your pace. Want to call first, or have a coffee first with no obligation to take it further? Both are possible.

Send me a message and we will find out whether it clicks.