Gigolo in Dordrecht

A city that does not push itself on you

Dordrecht often gets skipped, and that is exactly what makes it pleasant. The old centre is beautiful without buses of tourists rolling through it. At the Groothoofd three rivers meet, and you watch barges glide past while you sit on a terrace. For a conversation that needs a little time, that is an excellent backdrop.

From Amsterdam it is a good hour’s drive. Easy enough, but I like to plan a little ahead so I have plenty of time and the evening is not cut short by the trip back.

What we can do together

A walk along the Wolwevershaven and the Kuipershaven. The Dordrechts Museum, which is surprisingly good. The Grote Kerk with that leaning little tower. And if you want something bigger, the Biesbosch begins practically at the edge of the city. An hour on the whisper boat and you forget for a while that a life is waiting for you somewhere.

Or we skip all of it. Many dates simply begin indoors, with tea and a conversation that only gets somewhere after half an hour. That is no lesser start.

Who I come to Dordrecht for

For women who are married and can share what they miss with nobody. For women left with a house full of silence after a divorce. Widows, in whom longing and grief run together. And women who have never experienced any of this and would rather do it on their own terms than with a stranger from an app.

And for couples who want to try something together. What is possible is set out under my services. What it becomes in your case, we decide together.

Discreet in a city with a village heart

Dordrecht is a city, but the old centre feels like a village. People know each other and word gets around. I adjust to that. I park where you want, I do not come with flowers or anything else that draws attention, and I have a story ready about who I am if you like.

If you would rather not meet in Dordrecht at all, Rotterdam is twenty minutes away and nobody there knows you. That is a fine choice too, and certainly not overcautious.

Practical

Travel costs fit the distance and you hear them beforehand. No surcharge for the evening, the night, the weekend or public holidays, and booking as a couple costs nothing extra. More practical questions? See the frequently asked questions.

How a first date goes

It starts with texting. I want to know a thing or two, so do you, and during that exchange it clicks into place. Rather hear how someone sounds? Then we pick up the phone. A first meeting on neutral ground, with no obligation to take it further, is always an option. It happens more often than you think.

On the day itself it starts calmly. First you land and we talk. The rest is up to you. For most women that first part lasts longer than they had expected, and that is not wasted time.

Afterwards you hear nothing from me, unless you want to. No “how was it”, no reminder once months have passed.

Doubts I hear a lot

“Am I not too old for this?” No. The ages run from the early twenties to well into the seventies, and the women over fifty are certainly not in the minority.

“What if I am nervous and do not dare do anything?” Then we talk for an evening and that will have been a good date. There is no goal that has to be reached and I keep no scorecard.

“And if I want to stop halfway?” Then we stop. That is no failure and it causes nobody a problem.

What you can expect from me

I arrive on time and well-groomed. Beyond that I mostly listen, without steering you anywhere. I do not startle. And I discuss you with nobody, ever.

This is how it starts

Send me a message with where you are, what you are after and when you would like to. Two sentences already do it. I usually reply within a day and after that we go on at your pace. Calling first is fine, coffee first too.

Get in touch and we will figure it out together.