Gigolo in Den Helder

All the way up north

Den Helder sits at the end of the province and you feel that the moment you arrive. The air is different, the wind is always there, and the sea is never far. For me it’s a good hour and a half from Amsterdam, so this is a date you’re better off planning some way ahead. Do that, and I arrive relaxed and we really do have the time.

That distance is exactly what makes it appealing to many women. Here you’re far from the rest of your life. What happens in Den Helder stays in Den Helder more easily too, and that gives room.

What we can do here

Walking the sea dike with a view over the Wadden Sea. The dunes at Julianadorp or Huisduinen, where within ten minutes you meet no one. Fort Kijkduin and the Lange Jaap lighthouse for anyone who wants something to see. The harbour, where something is always sailing. And in bad weather, the Navy Museum or simply somewhere indoors with a view of grey water, which is lovely in its own way.

Want to make a night of it here? The crossing to Texel is well worth it. The boat takes twenty minutes and on the other side the world is a degree quieter still.

Discretion in a town used to a steady flow

Den Helder is a navy town. People are always coming and going, which means an unfamiliar face stands out less here than in a village further along. That works in your favour.

Still, I keep it as always. I arrive without fuss, I park where you want, and I discuss you with no one. If you’d rather meet in a hotel than at home, I’ll help think of a place where you simply walk in.

Who I come here for

For women who, for whatever reason, have been alone a long time. For partners of people who are often at sea or on deployment, and who have the bed to themselves for months on end. And for women who, after a loss or a divorce, want to feel again that someone has attention for them.

What we do you decide yourself. Under my services you’ll see the forms it can take, from simply being together and touch to a whole night.

In practice

For Den Helder I charge travel costs that fit the distance, and you know them in advance, never afterward. There are no surcharges for the evening, the night, the weekend or public holidays, and booking as a couple costs no extra. Plan a few weeks ahead if you can, then the chance is greatest that it works on the day you want.

Why a longer date works better here

With an hour and a half of travel, a short evening is a waste. For you as much as for me. If we plan a long evening that runs on, or an overnight stay from the start, the drive falls away entirely against the time we have together. And you feel the difference. The first two hours are usually settling in, and only after that does it really ease down.

If you’d still rather keep it shorter, that’s possible of course. But if you’re unsure, choose the more generous option. Stopping earlier is always possible; extending at the moment it becomes just right is harder.

How a first date goes

It starts with messages. I ask some questions, you ask some questions, and somewhere in there you feel whether it’s right. Want to hear it rather than read it? Then I call you. When the time comes we take it slowly. We sit down, we talk, and go further only when you say so.

What happens after that is entirely up to you. I don’t get in touch on my own.

What you can expect from me

On time, and dressed with care. Beyond that it’s mostly listening, and forcing nothing. Nothing throws me. You keep control of the pace, even when you change your mind. You come up in none of my conversations, not then and not later.

This is how it starts

Send me a message with where you are, what you’re looking for and when you’d want. Short is fine. I usually answer within a day, and after that we go on at your pace, texting, calling, or getting to know each other calmly first.

Get in touch and we’ll see together what’s possible.