Gigolo in Amsterdam

Why Amsterdam is different

Amsterdam is the easiest city in the Netherlands to do this. Not because there’s something special in the water, but because nobody here looks twice. A woman and a man walking into a hotel lobby together. No receptionist turns her head for that. In a village it’s different. Here you’re one of the tens of thousands of people doing something nice that evening.

I live in this city. That helps. I don’t have to travel, I know the spots that stay quiet on a busy evening, and I know which hotels you walk into with an easy mind. For you it also means a date is quicker to arrange than elsewhere. Sometimes even the same week, if my calendar cooperates.

What an evening here can be

One woman wants to go into the city. Dinner somewhere with the lights turned low, then a walk along the water until you forget the time, and only then seeing what the evening becomes. Another skips all that and arranges to meet somewhere straight away, because the build-up mainly makes her nervous.

What most women mention afterward isn’t what we did, but how it felt. That someone was there who took the time. Who didn’t look at his phone, and who asked how you were really doing and actually wanted to hear the answer. Nothing was rushed. There was nothing to perform and nobody to prove anything to.

What happens beyond that, you decide. From a long walk and an embrace to a whole night. Anything in between is possible, and you choose moment by moment. Have a look at my services if you want a sense of the forms it can take, from touch and skin hunger to an erotic overnight stay.

At your place or in a hotel

Your place is perfectly fine, as long as you feel at ease there. Plenty of women still choose a hotel, and I understand that. A hotel room is neutral ground. There are no neighbours you know, no child’s bedroom across the hall, and you don’t have to tidy your house first as if company is coming.

I arrive discreetly. No flowers at the door, no loud greeting on the walkway, and if you’d rather we meet in the lobby instead of your room, that’s what we do. Just say what feels good to you, however small the detail seems.

Creative and informal addresses

• Hotel Not Hotel: artistic rooms, some hidden behind false walls. Playful and anonymous at once.
• De Ceuvel: on the water in Noord, relaxed atmosphere, pleasant for an informal start.
• The Toren: small and romantic, quirkily furnished, warm rooms.
• Hotel Jakarta: tropical indoor garden on KNSM Island, light and quiet.
• Zoku Amsterdam: loft-like rooms with plenty of space, little hotel feel.
• Lloyd Hotel: historic building, rooms in every price range, each with its own character.

If you want more luxury

• Waldorf Astoria: seventeenth-century canal houses with a quiet garden behind them.
• InterContinental Amstel: the classic address on the Amstel, with a view that makes the evening feel grand at once.
• Conservatorium Hotel: modern in a monumental shell, with a spa.
• Pulitzer Amsterdam: twenty-five canal houses strung together, no two rooms alike.
• The Dylan: on the Keizersgracht, understated luxury, a lovely courtyard garden.
• Andaz Prinsengracht: designed by Marcel Wanders, bold and colourful.
• Sofitel Legend The Grand: right in the centre, classic and discreet.

Something special

• Faralda NDSM Crane Hotel: sleeping in a restored harbour crane, with a view over the IJ.
• Botel: a floating hotel in the harbour, you sleep on the water.
• Hotel De Hallen: a former tram depot in Oud-West, industrial and warm.
• Pillows Maurits at the Park: chic and intimate, on the Oosterpark.
• Yays Elandsgracht: apartments with a homey feel, good for a longer stay.

Looking for somewhere that allows more than an ordinary room does, for a BDSM date for instance? Then I’m glad to help think it through. In and around Amsterdam there are private venues set up for that, and which ones are good and safe at any given moment varies. Just ask me.

Discretion in practice

I work alone, so your details pass no agency and no middleman. I keep no more than necessary, I discuss you with no one, and on the street I greet you only if you greet me first. If you run into someone you know, I’m a colleague, a friend of a friend, or whatever works for you in that moment. Feel free to think it up in advance. It saves a fright.

This is how you make a date

It starts with a message. Write briefly who you are, what you’re looking for and when you’d want. No polished story needed; two sentences are enough. A reply rarely takes longer than a day. After that we talk on, by app or by phone, until it feels right for you. Want to have a coffee first without anything else happening? That’s possible too.

Send me a message and we’ll figure it out together. And if you’d rather first read who will be standing at your door: that story is here.