Gigolo in Alkmaar

Alkmaar beyond the market

Everyone knows Alkmaar for the cheese market on Friday morning. What outsiders know less is how quiet the centre is afterward. The little canals around the Bierkade, the courtyards behind the Laat, the Grote Kerk suddenly towering over an empty square. A town that overflows at ten on a Friday and is yours by eight in the evening.

From Amsterdam I drive here in about three quarters of an hour. That works well for an evening, and certainly for a night. I prefer to plan Alkmaar a week or so ahead, so I have plenty of time and arrive relaxed instead of only just on time.

The surroundings count

What makes Alkmaar strong is what lies around it. Bergen aan Zee and Egmond are fifteen minutes away. The Schoorl dunes just as close. An afternoon walking in the dunes and then warming up somewhere is one of the loveliest ways to start a date here, precisely because the tension walks out of your legs while you talk.

Would you rather not go outside? That’s completely fine. An evening in a hotel room with the curtains closed is just as much an evening. Nothing has to be proven and no programme has to be worked through.

Discretion in a town where you know people

Alkmaar is a town, but it feels like a large village community. Many people know each other through school, sport or work, and that makes some women cautious. Rightly so.

That’s why a hotel often works better here than home. Van der Valk Akersloot is close by and has its own car park where nobody watches you. In the area too there are plenty of addresses where you simply walk in without any fuss. If you’d rather meet at home, I stick to your rules: where I park, what time I ring the bell, and what I say if someone is listening in.

Who I come to Alkmaar for

For the woman who is married and has noticed for years that something is missing, without holding it against her husband. For someone who has just been left on her own and doesn’t know how to begin again. And for the woman who is curious about something she has never said out loud.

I don’t judge and I assume nothing. What you want you decide yourself, and that can change along the way. Under my services you’ll see the forms this can take, from simply being together to an erotic overnight stay.

In practice

For Alkmaar I charge travel costs you hear in advance, no surprise afterward. Surcharges for the evening, the night, the weekend or a public holiday don’t exist, and booking as a couple costs no extra. Plan a little ahead if you can, then the chance of a suitable moment is greatest.

How a first date goes

It starts with messages. We ask each other what we need to, and along the way you feel whether it sits right. If you’d rather use your voice, we pick up the phone. First a cup of coffee and nothing more? That happens more often than you’d think, and it’s a fine way to begin.

On the day itself we don’t head off anywhere straight away. We sit first, we talk, and only when you want it does more come. For most women that first stretch lasts longer than they’d expected beforehand, and that is exactly right.

After that it stays quiet on my side, unless you reach out. No little “how was it” text, no reminder a few months later.

What you can expect from me

On time, well groomed, no hurry. I listen without steering toward anything and nothing throws me. The pace follows you, not the other way around. Turning back halfway is fine and says nothing about you. No one hears about you from me, not today and not a year from now.

This is how it starts

Send a message with where you are and what you’re looking for. Short is fine. I usually answer within a day, and after that we talk on until it feels right for you. Calling first is possible, a coffee first just as much.

Get in touch, and feel free to read first who I am.