Gigolo in Tilburg

Familiar ground

Tilburg is not just any city on the map to me. I come from this part of the country, so I know how it talks here, what time it goes quiet, and where you can sit without anyone bothering you. That saves explaining, and it saves you the feeling that someone from the Randstad is dropping by to tell you how things are.

From Amsterdam it is about an hour and a half’s drive. Easy enough, certainly for a longer evening or a night. I like to plan Tilburg a week or so ahead, so I have plenty of time.

What the city has to offer

Tilburg has changed quite a bit over the last twenty years. The Spoorzone with the old workshop. The Piushaven, where the light on the water is lovely at the end of the afternoon. The Textielbrei and the textile past you still see everywhere. The Kaaistraat and around it for food that does not have to be expensive to be good.

Outside the city lie the Loonse en Drunense Duinen, maybe the finest place in Brabant to walk. Sand, pines, room. An hour walking there does more for the nerves than an hour facing each other at a little table.

And as always, none of it is required. Sitting somewhere quiet right away and only then seeing what the evening becomes is just as good a plan. Often easier, in fact, if the build-up mostly makes you nervous.

Who I come to Tilburg for

For the woman who has been married for twenty years and no longer knows how to say what she misses. For the woman who has just divorced and stayed in the same neighbourhood, with all the looks that come with it. For the widow who feels guilty that her body still wants something. For the woman with a partner who is ill or no longer able, and who shares that grief with almost no one.

And for the woman who is simply curious. No grief behind it, no drama. That is allowed too, and it happens more often than people think.

What is possible is set out under my services, from an evening together and touch to a bdsm date or a whole night.

Discretion in Brabant

Brabant is sociable, and ninety-nine percent of the time that is good. For this kind of date it calls for care, because everyone knows everyone through the club, the church, work or the carnival society.

So I arrive quietly. No flowers, no loud greeting on the pavement, no car that circles the block twice first. I park where you want, even if that is by the shopping centre further off. And if someone asks who I am, I stick exactly to the story you came up with.

A lot of women pick a hotel because of that, sometimes even in a neighbouring town. Fine choice, and I am happy to think along about where. Home is fine too, and then we settle beforehand how I come in.

How it goes

A message with your town and a rough sketch of what you are after. No long wait. A day is usual. After that we keep talking until it feels right for you. Texting, a call, or a coffee first in a café where you feel at ease, with no obligation to take it further.

If we plan something, you know beforehand what happens and what it costs, travel costs included. That amount does not change afterwards. No surcharge for the evening, the night, the weekend or public holidays. For two you pay no more than for one.

And during the date you set the pace, even when it changes halfway through. I do not work from a script, I keep no scorecard, and I have no stake at all in what does or does not happen, other than that you feel good.

What you can expect from me

I am there when we agreed, and presentable. What I mostly do is hear what is there, without working toward anything. Nothing you tell me or ask startles me, and there really is little I have not heard before. I take your limits more seriously than you may take them yourself. Nobody hears about you from me, not today and not a year from now.

On the day itself we start calmly. First sitting, first talking, and only when you want it does more follow. For most women that first part lasts longer than they had expected, and that is exactly right.

This is how it starts

Send a message with your town and a day that suits you. If you want to read first who will be sitting across from you, that story is here.