Gigolo in Oss

A city with villages around it

Oss has just over ninety-five thousand residents and consists of the city itself plus a string of villages that came with mergers. Berghem, Ravenstein, Geffen, Megen and a handful more. The Meuse forms the northern border.

Den Bosch is twenty minutes away, Nijmegen half an hour. If you would rather not meet in your own municipality, that is the simplest solution.

What we can do together

The Meuse dike near Megen and Ravenstein, with floodplains and a view that stretches out. Ravenstein itself, a tiny fortified town you cross in ten minutes and that still looks the way it did in the eighteenth century. The Museum Jan Cunen in the centre. And the Maashorst to the south, a nature reserve with wisent and heath.

If you would rather sit indoors right away, we start there. That often works better when you are tense.

Discretion in the villages

In a village like Geffen or Megen, people see who comes and goes. It is not meant unkindly, but it is there, and for a lot of women it is the reason to hesitate.

I put the car where you want it, outside the village if need be, and I walk the rest. No flowers, no loud greeting on the pavement, no ringing again and again. If someone asks who I am, I stick exactly to the story you came up with.

A lot of women pick a hotel in Den Bosch or Nijmegen rather than home. Sensible, and I am happy to think along.

Who I come here for

For women who have been married for years and miss something there are no words for at home. For women who stayed in the same village after a divorce. Widows who feel they are not allowed to want this. You are. And for women who have lived their whole lives in a close-knit community where this is never talked about.

For couples too. What is possible is set out under my services, from simply being together and touch to an erotic overnight.

How a first date goes

It runs on messages. I ask a few questions, you ask yours, and in that back and forth you sense on your own whether this is something. Rather call, that is fine. Rather have a coffee somewhere first with nothing more happening that day, just as good.

On the day itself we start slowly. Sitting, talking, and the rest comes only when you are ready. For most women that first hour takes more time than they had allowed for, and there is nothing wrong with that.

Once you are home again, you hear nothing from me unless you want to.

Agreements about money

The whole date is on paper beforehand. What we do, how long, what it costs, and the travel costs that come with the drive to Oss. Nothing is added on afterwards. No surcharge for the evening, the night, the weekend or a public holiday. Booking as a couple costs no more.

The first time

The first time almost everyone is nervous, and that is no problem, that is just how it works. What takes the tension away is knowing what is coming. Where we meet, what time, how I come in, and what does and does not happen that evening.

And nothing has to happen. An evening made of talking and an arm around you is a good evening. For many women that is exactly enough the first time, and only after that does it go further.

What you can expect from me

I am there on time, well-groomed, and without rush. Listening without steering you anywhere is the biggest part of my work. Whatever you tell me or ask, it does not startle me.

A limit you name I guard more strictly than you might guard it in the moment. It goes as fast or as slow as you want. And you come up in no conversation of mine, not with friends, not later, never.

If you are still on the fence

Writing commits you to nothing. Some of the women who email me do so months before a date comes into view, purely to know how it works. From some I then hear nothing more, and that is fine. Others get in touch half a year later after all.

There is no sales pitch behind it. I do not push, I send no reminder, and my calendar does not have to be full.

This is how it starts

Send me a message with where you are and when it would fit. I do not need more than that.