Gigolo in Den Bosch

A city whose mood comes on its own

Den Bosch has something you feel within ten minutes of arriving. Maybe it is the Sint-Jan rising above everything, maybe the narrow streets, maybe just that people here take their time. Whatever it is, it makes a first meeting easier, because you do not have to jump straight into conversation. You can simply walk first.

From Amsterdam I am here in a little over an hour. For Brabant that is relatively short and it makes Den Bosch one of the easier places in this province to plan something.

What we can do together

A boat trip along the Binnendieze, straight under the city. Half an hour in which you forget there is a city above you. The Sint-Jan cathedral, even if churches do nothing for you. The Noordbrabants Museum and the Design Museum, side by side. And the Korte Putstraat, restaurant after restaurant, always too convivial to leave.

Outside the city there is the Bossche Broek, where within fifteen minutes you are walking in green with the skyline still in view. Or the Loonse en Drunense Duinen, twenty minutes away.

If you would rather sit somewhere quiet right away, that is just as good a plan. I have no programme and there is nothing to get through.

Who I come to Den Bosch for

For women who are married and have missed for years what they cannot put into words. For women who have just divorced and wonder whether they have lost the knack. You have not. Widows, whose body wants to go on while the mind is still grieving. For women who work hard and never get to simply be. And for women who have never experienced any of this and think they missed the train.

And for two people who want to go through this together. What is possible is set out under my services, and what it becomes in your case we decide together, not in advance on a list.

Discreet in a lively city

Den Bosch is easy-going and sociable, which means people know each other and word gets around. I take that into account.

I arrive quietly. No flowers, no loud greeting, no car that circles the block first. I park where you want, even if that is a car park further off. And if someone asks who I am, I stick to the story you came up with.

For a lot of women a hotel is more comfortable than home. Neutral ground, no neighbours, no house to tidy first. There are good options in and around the city, and I am happy to think along. Home is fine too, of course, and then we settle beforehand how I come in.

How it works in practice

It starts with a message. Where you are, roughly what you are after, when you would like to. Short is no problem. You do not have to write an essay and there is no wrong answer.

A reply rarely takes longer than a day. After that we keep talking, by text or by phone, until it feels right for you. Want to meet once first with nothing following, fine. That is a good start and it happens regularly.

What we plan is fixed. The shape of it, the length, and the amount, travel costs included. Nothing new appears on the bill afterwards. There is no evening, night, weekend or public-holiday surcharge, and booking together costs no more than alone.

What you can expect from me

On time, and beyond that mostly listening, without steering you anywhere. Nothing you tell me startles me. I take your limits literally, even when you stretch them yourself. Nobody hears about you from me, not today and not a year from now.

What it is not

It is not an agency with a catalogue. Nobody stands between us. Your first message reaches me, I answer myself, and I am also the one at your door. Nothing gets ticked off in advance.

There is nothing to prove. You do not have to look like someone from the internet, you do not have to prove anything, and you do not have to apologise for anything. Not for your body, not for your age, not for what you want.

This is how it starts

Send me a message with where you are and when it could work. That gives me something to start with.