Gigolo in Breda

A city that takes its time

Breda is easy-going in the best sense. People sit down here and stay put. On a summer evening the Grote Markt fills right up, and nobody watches the clock. For a first meeting that helps, because the pressure to “do” something falls away on its own when you are somewhere nobody is in a hurry.

From Amsterdam it is about an hour and a half. Easy enough, and for a night no obstacle at all. I like to plan Breda a week or so ahead.

What we can do together

The Grote Kerk, visible from half of Breda. The Valkenberg park in the middle of the city. The Begijnhof, where it is suddenly completely quiet though two minutes earlier you were still in the bustle. And the food here is unusually good, from small places on the Ginnekenstraat to serious kitchens.

Outside the city lies the Mastbos, practically at the edge of the built-up area, and further on the Strijbeekse Heide and the Belgian border. A walk there is one of the best ways to get a conversation going. You walk side by side instead of facing each other, and that makes a difference.

And all of this is optional. If you would rather sit somewhere quiet right away, that is just as much an evening.

Who I come to Breda for

For women who are married and have not been touched the way they would want in years, with no argument and nobody to blame. For women who have to start over after a divorce and do not know how. Widows, in whom grief and longing exist at once. That is more normal than it feels. For women who have never experienced any of this and would rather not learn it from someone who is only winging it himself.

And for couples, where one of you watches, joins in, or just stays nearby. My services set out what is possible, from simply being together to sex after a divorce or an erotic overnight.

Discreet in Brabant

In Breda you know people. From school, from the club, from years back, from carnival. That is the charm of this city and at the same time the reason a lot of women hesitate over where to meet.

So I take it slow. I park where you want, even if that is some way off. I do not come with flowers or anything else that stands out. I do not ring three times if you do not answer for a moment. And if someone asks who I am, I stick to the story you came up with. Think it up beforehand and you save yourself the improvising.

A hotel is often more comfortable than home, and there are good options in and around the city. If you would rather meet well outside Breda, that is fine. Tilburg, Rotterdam and Antwerp all sit within an hour.

How it goes

You send a message with where you are and roughly what you have in mind. Two sentences is plenty. I usually reply within a day, and after that we keep talking until it feels right for you. Texting, a call, or a coffee first with no obligation to take it further.

What we agree on is fixed. The shape of it, the length, and the amount including travel costs. Nothing is added afterwards. There is no evening, night, weekend or public-holiday surcharge, and booking as a couple costs nothing extra.

During the date you set the pace. Changing your mind is allowed, halfway through too, even when everything was already planned. That is no failure and certainly no problem.

What you can expect from me

I am there at the agreed time, well-groomed. Beyond that I mostly listen, without giving direction. Nothing you say or ask startles me. Where you have drawn a line, I hold it, even when you let it go. I talk about you with nobody, not even later.

On the day itself there is no rush. First you land and talk, the rest comes on its own or not at all. For most women that first part lasts longer than they had expected, and that is not wasted time. It is what makes the rest easier.

This is how it starts

Write to me with where you live and which days would work. And if you want to know first who will be at your door, you can read that here.