Gigolo in Bergen op Zoom

Small, and that calls for care

Bergen op Zoom has around sixty thousand residents and feels smaller. The Markiezenhof, the Grote Markt, the old streets around it. It is a town you can walk across in half an hour, probably running into three people you know.

That is exactly why a lot of women here hesitate. Not about what they want, but about whether it can stay unnoticed. The answer is yes, as long as we do it right. And that begins with me sticking to your rules.

How I arrive here

Quietly. I park where you want, even if that is the supermarket car park and you would rather I walked the last stretch. No flowers at the door, no loud greeting on the pavement, no car that drives past twice first. If someone asks who I am, I stick exactly to the story you came up with.

If you would rather not meet in Bergen op Zoom at all, that is sensible and easy to solve. Roosendaal is fifteen minutes away, Breda half an hour, Antwerp three quarters of an hour and Rotterdam fifty minutes. In any of those cities you are completely anonymous.

What we can do together

The Markiezenhof, one of the finest town palaces in the country. The Grote Markt with the Peperbus above it. The Anton van Duinkerken park for a walk without driving far.

And the surroundings here are stronger than the town itself. The Brabantse Wal with its pine woods and sandy paths. The Oosterschelde fifteen minutes away, with dikes where you can walk for hours and the wind drowns out everything. On a clear day, an afternoon there and then warming up somewhere might be the best start there is.

Or we do none of it. Sitting somewhere quiet right away is just as much an evening, and sometimes an easier one.

Who I come here for

For women who are married and cannot remember the last time they were really touched. For women who stayed on the same street after a divorce, with everything that carries. Widows who blame themselves for something stirring again. There is no need for that. For women who have lived in this part of the country their whole lives and have never been able to talk to anyone about what they actually long for.

And for two people together. What is possible is set out under my services, from simply being together and touch to a whole night.

How it works in practice

It starts with a message. Where you are, roughly what you are after, when you could. That is all, and you do not have to make anything sound better than it is.

I usually reply within a day. After that we keep talking until it feels right for you. Texting, a call, or a coffee first in a place where you feel at ease, with no obligation to take it further.

From Amsterdam, Bergen op Zoom is nearly two hours’ drive, so I would rather plan this a good while ahead. Then I arrive rested and we have real time. Travel costs depend on the distance and are fixed before there is a date. Nothing is added afterwards, and there is no surcharge for the evening, the night, the weekend or public holidays. Booking together costs the same.

What you can expect from me

That I listen without steering you anywhere. That nothing startles me. I take your limits seriously, including the ones you only discover along the way. And I discuss you with nobody, not with friends, not with others, never.

Doubts I hear a lot

“Soon the whole town will know.” That is exactly why I do it the way I do. No flowers, no conspicuous car, parking where you want, and if need be meeting in another town or across the border.

“Am I not too old for this?” No, and I get that question from women of thirty as often as from women of seventy. From the early twenties to well over seventy, and by far the most are over fifty.

“What if I am nervous and do not dare do anything?” Then it becomes an evening of talking and that will have been a good evening. There is nothing to be won.

This is how it starts

A message with your town and a rough timeframe is enough to begin. And if you want to know first who will be sitting across from you, that story is here.