Gigolo in Venlo

A border city with room around it

Venlo lies against the German border and you feel it in the mood. There is turnover, people come from both sides of the border, and that makes an unfamiliar face less noticeable here than in a village further along.

Around the city there is plenty of space besides: the Maasduinen to the north, the Maas itself, the woods towards Arcen. You can be walking within fifteen minutes without meeting a soul.

From Amsterdam it is about two hours. That is why I would rather plan Venlo as a longer date or a night over than as a short evening. Then the trip is worth it for both of us.

What we can do together

A walk along the Maas or over the Maasboulevard. Kasteeltuinen Arcen, fifteen minutes north of the city, with gardens where half a day disappears. The Maasduinen with sand, pines and quiet. Or simply a terrace in the old town, where nobody watches the clock.

Germany is ten minutes away. If you would rather be right outside your own surroundings, that is a simple solution and many women choose it.

And as always, it is not required. If you would rather sit down inside straight away, that is where we begin.

Who I come to Venlo for

For women who are married and have not been touched the way they would want in years, with no argument behind it. Also for women who kept living on the same street after a divorce. For widows whose body wants something while the head is still grieving. For women who live in a tight community where this can be discussed with no one.

And for those who come together. What is possible is set out under my services, from simply being together and touch to a whole night.

Discreet in North Limburg

The villages around Venlo are tight. People know one another, they see who comes and goes, and word travels. I set myself by that.

I park where you want, even when that is some way off and I walk the last stretch. No flowers at the door. And I do not keep ringing until you finally open. If someone asks who I am, I stick to the story you came up with. Feel free to think that up beforehand, so you do not have to improvise on the spot.

A hotel is more comfortable than home for many women. In and around Venlo there are options, and just over the border as well.

How it goes

You write me where you live and roughly what you have in mind. Two sentences are enough; you do not have to turn it into a fine story.

Within a day you have something from me. After that we talk on until it feels right for you: by app, by phone, or a coffee first with no need for anything to come of it.

If we plan something, you know beforehand exactly what will happen and what it costs, travel included. Nothing gets added afterwards. No surcharge for the evening, the night, the weekend or public holidays. Booking together costs no extra.

What you can expect from me

I am on time. I listen without pushing you anywhere, and nothing throws me, whatever you tell me or ask. How fast or slow it goes is up to you, from start to finish. Changing your mind is allowed, and it is no failure. And I discuss you with no one.

What it is not

It is not an agency with a catalogue where you pick someone out. There is no go-between. Who you write is who shows up. No list of acts gets ticked off in advance and there is no script.

And you have nothing to show. No resemblance to someone off the internet, nothing to prove, and no apology for anything, not for your body, not for your age, not for what you want.

This is how it starts

Send me a message with where you are and when you would like to. Still unsure? Then read the frequently asked questions first. Most of what women wonder before they write is answered there.