Gigolo in Maastricht

A city that asks for time

Maastricht is not built for hurry. The squares stay full, people linger, and the city has a feel closer to Belgium or France than to the Randstad. That is exactly why it works well here to make a date a longer one: an afternoon that runs into an evening, or a whole night.

From Amsterdam it is a good two hours. That is why I would rather not plan a short visit here. If we do it, we do it properly. Then the travel time is negligible against what we have together.

What we can do together

The Vrijthof, with the Sint-Servaas on one side and terraces on the other. The Onze Lieve Vrouweplein, smaller and more intimate. Wyck across the Maas, with shops and places where it is quieter. The Sint-Pietersberg with the caves and the view over the valley. And the Bonnefanten if you want to see something.

Outside the city lies the Geuldal, perhaps the loveliest patch of the Netherlands to walk. Valkenburg, Epen, Vaals. All within half an hour.

And if you would rather do none of this, fine. Plenty of dates simply begin behind a closed door, with a conversation that only means something after half an hour.

Who I come to Maastricht for

For women who are married and have long missed what they never say out loud. Also for women who have to start again after a divorce and do not know how. For widows, who feel grief and desire at once and have no idea what to do with it. That is more normal than it feels. For women who study or work here, far from home, with no one around.

And for couples who want something together. What is possible is set out under my services, from touch and skin hunger to tantra or an erotic overnight.

Discreet in the south

Maastricht is a city with enough tourists and turnover that an unfamiliar face does not stand out. That works in your favour: you walk into a hotel here and nobody looks up.

In the villages around it that is different, and I take it into account. I park where you want, I do not turn up with flowers or anything else that draws the eye, and if someone asks who I am, I stick to the story you came up with.

If you want to be even further from your own world, Aachen and Liège are half an hour away. That is an option too, and not a strange one.

How it goes

You send a message with where you are, what you are after and when you could. Short will do. Two sentences is enough and there is no wrong answer.

A day, rarely longer. After that we write on until it feels right for you: by text, by phone, or a first sit at a terrace table with no need for anything to come of it.

If we plan something, you know beforehand exactly what will happen and what it costs, travel included. Nothing gets added afterwards. No mark-up for the evening, the night, the weekend or a public holiday, and booking as a couple costs no extra.

What you can expect from me

On time, well turned out, no hurry. I listen without steering anywhere and nothing you tell me throws me. You set the speed, even when it changes halfway. I share this with no one, not even long after.

Doubts I hear often

“Paying for company, isn’t that strange?” No. In Maastricht you also pay for a good table and an afternoon nobody rushes. This is no different: you buy time and attention, and how you fill it is up to you.

“What if I am nervous and don’t dare anything?” Then it becomes an evening of talking, and that is a good evening. There is no goal to be reached and I keep no score.

“What happens if I don’t want to anymore along the way?” Then it is done. That is no failure and certainly no problem, even when you travelled a long way for it.

Where we meet

Usually a hotel. Maastricht has plenty with a courtyard or a garden, and a guest who stays one night is invisible in a city full of visitors. Neutral ground, a door that locks, and no house to tidy first.

If you make it several days, an apartment in the centre is often nicer: your own entrance, no reception desk, and the city on the doorstep in the morning. Home is fine too, as long as you feel at ease there.

This is how it starts

Let me know where you live and when you can free up a few days. For Maastricht I am glad to think along about where we meet. With a longer date that makes a lot of difference.