Gigolo in Nijmegen

A city with two speeds

Nijmegen is old. Roman old. And at the same time one of the youngest cities in the country because of the university. That makes for a pleasant mix. Centuries-old streets with cafés in them where no one looks at you because everyone is busy with themselves.

The Waalkade and the far side by the Spiegelwaal are lovely in the evening, with the water and the bridges. For a first meeting that works well, because you can simply walk without a conversation having to start right away.

From Amsterdam it is a good hour and a half. Fine for a long evening or a night. I prefer to plan a bit ahead so the drive back does not cut the evening short.

What we can do together

Walking along the Waal, across the Waal Bridge or beside the side channel. The Valkhof park with a view over the river. Museum Het Valkhof when it rains. Eating in the inner city, where the choice is wide and the prices human.

Outside the city, the Ooijpolder, with dikes, water and birds, where within ten minutes on a bicycle you meet no one. Or the woods near Groesbeek and Berg en Dal, surprisingly hilly by Dutch standards.

And as everywhere, it does not have to happen. Sitting somewhere quiet straight away is just as good a beginning.

Who I come to Nijmegen for

For women who are married and have not been touched the way they want in years. For women who have just divorced and wonder how you begin again. For widows, in whom grief and longing exist at once. For academics and caregivers who are strong all day and are allowed to simply be nowhere. For women who have never experienced any of this and would rather do it on their own terms.

And for couples who want to try something together. What is possible is set out under my services, from touch and skin hunger to tantra or a whole night.

Where we meet

Nijmegen is big enough that no one keeps an eye on anyone, but the areas around it (Lent, Beuningen, Malden, Groesbeek) are smaller and easier to read. If you live there, I pay extra attention to how I arrive, and many women deliberately choose a place in the city rather than home.

Plenty of hotels, in the center and at the edge of the city. For most women that is the most comfortable route. Neutral ground, no neighbors who see a thing, no house that has to be tidied first.

Home is fine too, of course. Then I arrive discreetly. No flowers, no loud greeting, and I park where you want. If you live in a student building or a stairwell with thin walls, a hotel is usually nicer.

How it goes

You send me a message with where you are, roughly what you are after and when you could. It does not have to be more than two sentences. There is no right or wrong answer and you do not have to make anything prettier than it is.

I rarely keep you waiting longer than a day. After that we keep talking until it feels right for you. Texting, a call, or a coffee first with no obligation to take it further. That last one happens more often than you think.

If we plan something, it is settled beforehand what will happen and what it costs, travel included. What you hear beforehand is what you pay. No surcharge for evenings, nights, weekends or public holidays, and booking as a couple costs nothing extra.

What you can expect from me

Being on time and well-groomed is the minimum. After that I listen, without steering anywhere, and I am not shocked by anything, whatever you tell me or ask. I take your limits seriously, including the ones you only discover along the way. And I discuss you with no one.

Doubts I hear a lot

“Is it not strange to pay for this?” No. What you pay for is a few hours of undivided attention from someone who has done this for years. What happens in those hours is up to you.

“Am I not too old for this?” No, and that is not politeness. The youngest women who book me are students, the oldest are well into their seventies, and the middle sits around fifty-five.

“What if I want to stop halfway?” Then we stop, with no explanation and with nothing having gone wrong.

This is how it starts

Write to me with where you live and which days you could. Want to read first who will be sitting across from you? It is here.