Gigolo in Ede

Forest at the back door

Ede sits up against the Veluwe, and that is the shortest way to describe the municipality. Behind the last houses De Hoge Veluwe National Park and the Ede forest begin, with heath, sand and quiet. For a walk before the evening starts you have to go nowhere far.

Besides Ede itself the municipality takes in Bennekom, Lunteren, Otterlo and Wekerom, among others. From Amsterdam it is about an hour and fifteen minutes.

What we can do together

De Hoge Veluwe with the Kröller-Müller Museum inside it, where you cross the park on a white bicycle. The heath at Ederveen and the Ginkelse Heide, which turns purple in August. The National Liberation Museum and the World War Two sites near Arnhem, a little further on. And the former barracks grounds in Ede itself, rebuilt into a new neighborhood.

If you would rather sit somewhere quiet straight away, that is just as good a beginning.

Discretion in a municipality of church villages

Ede and its surroundings have a strong sense of community, and in the villages around it the social watching is noticeable. In Lunteren or Bennekom it is seen who comes and goes.

I take that into account. Parking where you want, even a good way off, no flowers, no loud greeting on the doorstep, and a story ready should anyone ask who I am.

If you would rather meet entirely outside your own municipality, Arnhem, Amersfoort and Utrecht are all within half an hour.

Who I come here for

For women who are married and have not been touched the way they would want in years, with no argument and nobody to blame. For women who live in a community where this is not talked about, and who carry it alone for years because of that. For anyone who lost her husband. Just as much for women beginning again after a divorce.

Also for couples who want to try something together. What is possible then is set out under my services.

What you can expect from me

On time, well-groomed and unhurried. I listen without pushing you anywhere and I am not shocked by anything, whatever you tell me or ask. There is truly little I have not heard before, not even from corners you would not expect.

I guard your limit more strictly than you do in the moment. The pace is yours. And I discuss you with no one, not now and not later.

How a first date goes

A few messages, no more than that at the start. Some questions go back and forth, and at some point you know whether this fits you. If you would rather call first, we call. If you want a coffee first outside your own municipality, with nothing else happening, that is a fine beginning.

On the day itself we start slowly. First sitting, first talking, and the rest comes only when you are there.

What we agree about money

Before you commit to anything it is all fixed. What we do, how long, what it costs, and the travel costs for the drive to the Veluwe. No bill follows afterwards. I charge nothing extra for evenings, nights, weekends or a public holiday, and booking as a couple costs no more.

The first time

The first time almost everyone is nervous. That comes with it and it passes on its own. What helps most is knowing what is coming, so we talk it through beforehand. The place, what time, how I come in, and what does and does not happen.

And nothing has to happen. A first date that consists of talking and an embrace is not half a date. For some of the women that is exactly enough, and it only goes further the second time.

If you are still hesitating

Writing commits you to nothing. Many women email me months before a date comes into view, just to know how it works. From some of them I never hear again, and that is fine. Others get in touch half a year later after all.

There is no sales pitch behind it. I do not nag afterwards and my calendar has no quota.

What women often say afterwards

Afterwards it is rarely about the sex, though that comes up too. What comes back most often is something else. That someone took the time. That no phone was picked up. That the question of how things really were turned out to be a real question.

And almost always the remark that the months of weighing it up had not been necessary.

This is how it starts

Send me a message with where you are and when it could work. That is where it starts.