Gigolo in Arnhem

A city with forest at its edge

What makes Arnhem special is how quickly it ends. You stand in the center, you drive fifteen minutes, and you are walking across the heath of the Veluwezoom or through the woods at Sonsbeek. Few cities in the Netherlands offer that.

For a date that is handy. If you want to be among other people, there is the inner city with the Modekwartier and the quays. If you would rather meet no one, that is a fifteen-minute drive.

From Amsterdam I am here in about an hour and a half. Easy enough, and for a night no problem at all.

What we can do together

Park Sonsbeek, right in the middle of the city and yet completely forest. The Rijnkade with the boats and the John Frost Bridge. The Netherlands Open Air Museum for an afternoon that passes on its own. Or drive on to the Hoge Veluwe and the Kröller-Müller, where you cross the park on a white bicycle.

You can eat well and affordably here, with plenty of small places that are on no list. And if you would rather do none of this, then we do none of this. Sitting somewhere quiet straight away is just as much an evening.

Who I come to Arnhem for

For women who are married and have not been touched the way they would want in years, with no argument behind it. For women who have to begin again after a divorce. For widows, in whom grief and longing sit side by side. That is more normal than it feels. For women who have never experienced any of this and would rather not learn it from someone who is only winging it.

And for couples, where one of you watches, joins in or is simply nearby. What is possible is set out under my services, from simply being together to an erotic overnight.

Arriving discreetly

No flowers at the door, no loud greeting, no car that circles the block twice first. I park where you want, even if that is a good way off. And if someone asks who I am, I stick exactly to the story you came up with.

If you live in a village around Arnhem (Velp, Rheden, Oosterbeek, Westervoort), I pay extra attention there. More stands out in such places than in the city, and I know that.

For many women a hotel is more comfortable than home. There are good options in and around the city, some at the forest’s edge. I am glad to think along.

How it goes

You send a message with where you are and roughly what you are after. Short is fine. I usually reply within a day, and after that we keep writing until it feels right for you. Texting, a call, or a coffee first in Sonsbeek with no obligation to take it further.

If we plan something, it is settled beforehand what will happen and what it costs, travel included. It comes to no more than that. No surcharge for evenings, nights, weekends or public holidays. Booking as a couple costs nothing extra.

During the date you set the pace, even if it turns halfway through. There is no script and nothing is recorded.

What it is not

It is no agency with a catalog. There is no middleman passing your wishes on to someone else. From the first message you are speaking with me, and I am also the one who comes. Your name is in no system anywhere and I do not get in touch afterwards unless you want me to.

What you can expect from me

I arrive on time and well-groomed. Beyond that I mostly listen, without steering you anywhere. I am not shocked, whatever you tell me or ask, and there is little I have not heard before. I take your limits more seriously than you may take them yourself. Your name reaches no one, not now and not later.

On the day itself we begin calmly. First sitting, first talking, and only when you want it does more follow. For most women that first part runs longer than they had planned, and that is not lost time.

This is how it starts

A message with your town and a possible day is enough. I need no more than that to begin.