Gigolo in Apeldoorn

A city that sits up against the forest

Apeldoorn is green and spread out, with avenues running in and out of the city and the Veluwe starting practically at the last houses. That makes it a pleasant place for a date that does not have to head anywhere in a hurry. You can let an afternoon run long here without anyone making a thing of it.

From Amsterdam it is about an hour and a half. Easy enough for a long afternoon or evening, and for an overnight stay no obstacle at all. I prefer to plan a week or so ahead.

What we can do together

Paleis Het Loo with the gardens behind it. Park Berg en Bos and the Apenheul, if you want something light. The CODA Museum in bad weather. And above all, the forest. The Kroondomein, the Loenen woods, the heath near Hoog Soeren. All within fifteen minutes.

An hour’s walk does more for the nerves than an hour facing each other across a little table. You walk side by side, there are silences that are not awkward, and talking comes more easily on its own.

And all of this is optional. If you would rather sit somewhere quiet straight away, that is just as good a beginning.

Who I come to Apeldoorn for

For women who are married and can share with no one what they miss. For women who live in a house grown too quiet after a divorce. For widows, whose body wants something while the mind is still grieving. For women who have retired and find they are nowhere near done with life.

And for couples, where one of you watches or joins in. What is possible is set out under my services, from simply being together and touch to intimate togetherness.

Discretion in a quiet city

Apeldoorn is big enough that you do not know everyone and quiet enough that an unfamiliar car in a still avenue does stand out. I match my approach to that.

I park where you want, even if that is a street away. No flowers, no loud greeting on the doorstep, no fuss. If someone asks who I am, I stick to the story you came up with. Feel free to think that up beforehand.

If you would rather not be at home, there are plenty of hotels in and around Apeldoorn, some right at the forest’s edge, where you simply walk in without anyone making a thing of it. I am glad to think along.

How it goes

You send a message with where you are, what you are after and when you could. A few sentences is enough. Within a day you have something from me.

After that we keep talking until it feels right for you. By text, by phone, or a coffee first with no obligation to take it further. That is a fine way to begin and it happens regularly.

If we plan something, you know beforehand what will happen and what it costs, travel included. It stays at that amount. No surcharge for evenings, nights, weekends or public holidays, and booking as a couple costs nothing extra.

What you can expect from me

On time, and beyond that mostly listening, without steering anywhere. Nothing shocks me. I keep to your pace, even if that means an evening spent mostly talking. I share this with no one, not even once time has passed.

What it is not

There is no agency and no catalog to pick someone from. Nobody stands between us. Your first message reaches me, I answer myself, and I am also the one who comes. Nothing is ticked off beforehand and I do not work from a script.

And it is not a performance. You do not have to look like someone from the internet, you do not have to prove anything, and least of all apologize, not for your body, not for your age, not for what you would like.

This is how it starts

A message with your town and a rough window is enough to begin. Still unsure whether this is for you? Then read the frequently asked questions first. Most of what people wonder before they write is there.