Gigolo in Almere

So close it’s almost Amsterdam

Almere is half an hour from my front door. By train from Amsterdam Centraal you’re there in twenty minutes. Of all the cities outside North Holland this is the easiest to plan something with, on a weekday and at short notice too.

The city is also spaciously built: wide streets, plenty of parking, neighbourhoods with distance between the houses. I can come and go here without a car standing in the way anywhere or anyone wondering whose it is.

What we can do together

The Weerwater with the quay around it, which sits beautifully at the end of the afternoon. The Almeerderstrand. The Kasteel, that unfinished ruin standing there as if someone changed their mind halfway. And the architecture of the centre, which you’ll find handsome or not, but which is at least nowhere else quite like this.

Outside the city: the Oostvaardersplassen to the north, where with a bit of luck you’ll see konik horses and white-tailed eagles, and the Almeerderhout for an hour of woodland.

What I come across here

Almere is a city many people once moved to for a house or a fresh start. I hear that back in the messages: women who live here but have their old circle elsewhere, and who notice the contact has thinned out over the years.

Beyond that the familiar stories. Married and not really touched in years. Just divorced and afraid the knack is gone. Widowed, with a body that wants to go on while the head is still grieving. And women who are simply curious, with no grief behind it. That’s allowed too.

The full range is on the services page.

Home or elsewhere

Home is often easier here than in an old city centre, precisely because the neighbourhoods are spaciously laid out and there’s less peering over the fence. I arrive discreetly: no flowers, no loud greeting, and I park where you want me to.

Prefer a hotel? That’s fine too. There are options in Almere itself, and Amsterdam is half an hour away if you’d rather be entirely outside your own surroundings. A lot of women choose that, and it isn’t overcautious.

How a first date goes

At the start it’s no more than a bit of writing. I ask a few questions, you ask a few questions, and somewhere in there you feel whether it fits. Rather call first? Then we do that. Want to have a coffee first with nothing else happening, then that’s a fine beginning.

On the day itself there’s no hurry. We sit down, we talk, and the rest only comes when you’re there. That first stretch lasts longer for almost everyone than they’d guessed, and that works in your favour.

What it isn’t

There’s no agency and no catalogue. No one sits between us: your first message reaches me, I write back myself, and I’m the one who rings the bell. Nothing is ticked off beforehand and I don’t work from a script.

It’s also not a performance where you have to show something. Looking like someone from the internet isn’t needed, and apologising least of all.

Practical

Half an hour’s drive keeps the travel costs low, and what they are you hear before anything is set. That figure stands; nothing is added afterward. A Friday evening costs the same as a Tuesday afternoon, a public holiday too, and booking as a couple doesn’t make the bill higher.

Doubts I often hear

“Doesn’t paying for this feel strange?” For most women only beforehand. You pay for the time and attention of someone who does this as a trade, and what happens within that time you decide.

“Aren’t I too old for this?” Never had anyone who really was. My youngest client was twenty-two, the oldest seventy-six, and the centre of gravity is somewhere around fifty-five.

“And if there’s no click?” Then that shows in the messages and we plan nothing. You’ll only be out a bit of time spent texting.

Changing your mind is allowed

Halfway through as well, even when everything was already arranged. That’s no failure, and it causes me no trouble at all.

In practice, dates regularly run differently than planned. Sometimes it turns calmer, sometimes not. I steer toward nothing and have no stake in a particular outcome, except that you feel good and think back on it without regret.

This is how it starts

Send me a message: where you are, and when it could work. Want to know first who’ll be standing at your door, that story is here.