Gigolo in Chemnitz

Without pretensions

Chemnitz doesn’t put on an act. The city has a heavy industrial past, was largely destroyed in the war and then rebuilt for function, and you can see it. What it does have: an enormous bronze head of Karl Marx in the middle of the street, one of the largest art collections in eastern Germany, and people who make little fuss.

From Amsterdam it’s about seven hours by car. So this is a stay of two days or more, not an evening.

What we can do together

The Karl-Marx-Monument, worth seeing once. The Kunstsammlungen with work by Schmidt-Rottluff. The Industriemuseum. And the Küchwald, a forest in the middle of the city with a lookout tower.

Half an hour away the Erzgebirge begins: forests, old mining towns on the World Heritage list, and in winter snow that stays for weeks. For a weekend that’s the real reason to come here.

Language

German, English or Dutch. In the Erzgebirge German is the most useful, and I speak it fine.

Who I come here for

For women who are married and have missed for years what they don’t say aloud. Just as much for divorced women who stayed on in their old neighbourhood. For widows, in whom the body speaks up while the mourning isn’t finished. Just as much for women in the villages of the Erzgebirge, where everyone knows everyone and this isn’t talked about.

And for couples who want to try something together. See my services.

Discretion in small places

The villages in the Erzgebirge are small and people know each other down to the third degree. There they keep track of who comes, who goes and what time the car drives off.

So I put the car wherever you want it, at the edge of the village if need be, with the last stretch on foot. No flowers, no conspicuous arrival. If anyone asks who I am, I stick to the story you came up with.

Practical

About seven hours’ drive from Amsterdam. You hear the travel costs beforehand, and that figure doesn’t shift afterward.

I charge no surcharge for the night, the Saturday or a public holiday. Booking together doesn’t change the price. For a stay of a few days you pay a part up front, simply because the accommodation is booked by then.

What it isn’t

I’m not an agency: there’s no selection and no matchmaking, and certainly no file. From your first word on you’re dealing with me, and with no one else.

Performance isn’t part of it. There’s no standard your body or your age has to meet, and what you want you don’t have to defend here.

An evening or a stay

Seven hours there and seven back makes an evening completely impossible. So it becomes at least a night, and usually two days.

Here that’s no compromise. The Erzgebirge begins half an hour away, with old mining towns on the World Heritage list and in winter snow that stays for weeks. A second day fills itself.

If you’re unsure about the length, take the longer option. Heading home earlier is always fine.

About money

Before anything is fixed you know the length, the shape and the amount, including the drive here. No line shows up afterward that you hadn’t counted on.

For a stay of several days I ask for a deposit, because by then I’ve reserved a room or cottage myself.

What women often say afterward

The sex is almost never the first thing mentioned. What comes up more often is that nothing was rushed through, and that for two days no one looked at a phone.

And almost always the remark that they took far too long to write.

This is how it starts

Let me know where you live and when you can set aside a few days. For a stay I’m happy to help think through the place.