Gigolo in Wiesbaden

A city built for relaxation

Wiesbaden grew big as a spa resort, and that is still the atmosphere: broad avenues, stately façades, thermal baths, and people who do not rush. For a date that is a pleasant setting, because relaxing is the starting point here rather than something you have to work at.

Frankfurt is half an hour away, which is handy if you live in one city and would rather meet in the other.

What we can do together

The Kaiser-Friedrich-Therme, where an afternoon in warm water does more for the nerves than any conversation. The Kurhaus with the casino beside it. The Neroberg, where an old funicular takes you up with a view over the city and the Rhine plain. And the Marktplatz with the red church.

Ten minutes away lies the Rheingau: vineyard slopes, Rüdesheim, and boats on the Rhine. For a day together that is hard to beat.

Language

German, English or Dutch, and switching halfway is fine.

Who I come here for

For women who have been married for years and miss something there are no words for at home. Also for women who are here for work and know no one outside the office. For widows, in whom the body is already further along than the head. Just as much for women who, after a divorce, plan a few days for themselves.

And for those who come together. What is possible is under my services, from tantra to an erotic overnight stay.

Practical

Five hours’ drive from Amsterdam. What the trip costs you know before we pick a day, and that amount is then fixed.

No surcharge for the night, the weekend or a public holiday, and booking as a pair costs the same as alone. During the big Frankfurt trade fairs Wiesbaden fills up too, so plan a few weeks ahead.

Where we meet

Usually in a hotel, and Wiesbaden has a long tradition of them. For a two-day stay something in the Rheingau is often nicer still: your own door, a view of the vineyard slopes and, in the morning, no one who sees you leave.

If you would rather be at home, that is possible. We then arrange in advance how I arrive and where I park.

Doubts I often hear

“Paying for company, isn’t that strange?” No. You pay for the time and attention of someone who takes this work seriously. What happens in that time, you decide.

“Am I not too old for this?” That limit does not exist. All ages come by, and women over fifty are the rule rather than the exception.

“What if I freeze up?” Then we talk for an evening, and that will have been a good evening. There is no goal on the agenda.

For couples

With couples the conversation usually starts with whether it is wise. What I watch for: if one of you comes along because the other wants it, I see that, and then it does not go ahead.

If you have really talked it through, all sorts of things are possible. Being present, joining in, or following it from a distance. Either of you can stop it at any moment, and the price does not change for it.

What you can expect from me

On time, well groomed, and without the impatience of someone who has to be somewhere afterward. Listening without an agenda, and without anything that surprises me.

The line you set stays in force, even if you let go of it in the moment. No one hears from me who you are.

What women often say afterward

About the sex I usually hear something only later. What gets mentioned more often is that nothing was rushed through, and that no one looked at their phone.

After an afternoon in the thermal baths, by the way, I often hear it in this form: that the body relaxed sooner than the head, and that this came as a surprise.

What I do not do

Rush. Put on an act. Steer toward something because it is supposedly part of the deal. Reach out when you have not asked me to.

And I do not act as if you should be ashamed of this. The women who book me lead, in the vast majority, a perfectly ordinary life.

This is how it starts

Send a message: your place, and the period when it would fit. If you want the thermal baths or the Rheingau in the programme, say so.