brabantsmeisje.nl · podcast #17
BDSM beyond the whips: the energy underneath
Jolanda keeps digging into what BDSM really is. Beyond the whips, and why leading and following stay equal.
What is BDSM really?
What BDSM really is has little to do with the whips and handcuffs you see on TV. It is the energy between the one who takes the lead and the one who follows, and to me those two roles always stay equal. In this episode Jolanda and I go deeper into that.
Safewords and the traffic-light system come up too, along with the difference between the swinger world and the BDSM world, and why people can find quiet in their head without any sex involved.
Listen to the episode on Brabants Meisje, or read the whole interview back on the blog.