For you, if you travel and don't want to spend the evenings alone
A gigolo while traveling, in a city where nobody knows you
Here you're free. I carry the evening, and what happens doesn't travel back with you.
Sound familiar?
The most beautiful cities, seen from a hotel bed
Hi, I’m Victor. Maybe you’re already reading this in your hotel, or you’re still planning your trip.
You’re going alone, and on purpose. A birthday you want to celebrate somewhere else, a long weekend in a city you’ve always wanted to see. Or you’re on vacation alone, somewhere past fifty, and for a few days you’d simply like someone next to you at the table. During the day you go wherever you like. But in the evening you sit at a table for one, in a restaurant full of couples.
That freedom is exactly why you go. You’d just rather share the evenings with someone. Someone who opens up the city for you and doesn’t spend the whole evening talking about himself. Maybe you recently saw a TV show about it, and the idea hasn’t let go of you since.
Maybe this sounds familiar
A table for one
In a restaurant where everyone else is a couple. The waiter clears away the second place setting.
Room service and a series
A room with a stunning view, and you with the remote.
A photo of the lights
The city at night. And nobody to send it to.
The man at the hotel bar
He mostly talks about himself. You head upstairs early.
Checking ahead
Is a service at your destination actually reliable? After three reviews you still don’t know.
The last evening
Tomorrow you fly home, and you’ve really only seen the city by daylight.
Here you're free
A foreign city makes something easier. Nobody knows you, nobody expects anything of you, and what happens there doesn’t travel back home with you. That isn’t a risk. It’s exactly the freedom you’re looking for.
What you’re probably not looking for is a vacation romance that costs you money, or a man who plays with your feelings. That’s why I’m clear from the very first message about what this is: an evening, or a few days, with someone who is really there.
I trained as a psychotherapist. I read an evening well, and I notice when you want company and when you need a moment of quiet.
If nothing changes, the most beautiful cities stay a view from a hotel bed. A city feels different with someone who opens it up for you. You’re allowed to feel welcome there, and desired, for exactly as long as your trip lasts.
An evening in a city you don't know
Picture this: a restaurant you’d never have found on your own, a table by the window, and outside the lights of a city that’s yours for one evening. I’ve made the reservation, or we follow your plan. Afterward, a walk through streets you’ll still recognize tomorrow.
Maybe it stays at dinner and that walk, simply company. Maybe afterward you take me back to your hotel for an erotic overnight stay, or you’d like a few days of the full boyfriend experience. You decide, right there.
What you take home is a story that’s yours alone. Nobody at home needs to know it.
Rather travel together for a few days? Read more about traveling with me or about arrangements.
Do you want a trip where every detail is right? Then read luxury male escort. And if you mostly want a few days in which you arrange nothing, a break from your roles is about exactly that.
Want to meet from a distance first?
A message is enough. If the distance is large, we’ll call or video call first, so you know who’ll be standing in front of you.
Why me
I’m in my early fifties, calm, and I love to travel. I speak Dutch, English, and German, so talking for a whole evening comes naturally.
I work alone, under my own name, and you can read reviews from women beforehand. So if you’re looking for a male escort while traveling, you know exactly who’s coming beforehand. No agency sending a stranger to your hotel.
I choose who I meet. That makes it more pleasant for both of us.
How it works
From your travel plans to an evening together
A message with your travel dates
Where you'll be, when, and what you're looking for. Short is fine. If you're in a different time zone, add that too, so I don't accidentally plan something for three in the morning.
A (video) call first
If the distance is large, we talk first, so you know who I am.
A proposal that fits
Abroad is on request. Travel and accommodation are included in the proposal, so you know where you stand beforehand. Whether I ask for you at the front desk or wait in the lobby, we agree on that too.
Meeting in a public place first
A bar or your hotel lobby. We only go further once it feels right.
The evening itself
I arrange the restaurant and the route, or I follow your plan. Everything can be discussed, nothing is required!!
Or you come to me
If you're traveling to the Netherlands on purpose, I'll show you the city you came for.
Discreet, across borders too
Your first name is enough
That’s all I need to know.
Nothing saved
Our chats vanish, and I don’t keep a client file.
No texts from me
On my own, I never send you a thing. What happened there stays there.
I'm not from your city
I don’t live around the corner from you, and for many women that’s a relief.
Nothing recognizable online
No photo where you’d recognize me is floating around. After the trip, I don’t know you anymore.
Nothing that stands out on your statement
Cash is fine. Through the bank it simply says coaching.
"Yes, but..."
- “Is this safe, in a country I don’t know?” We make clear agreements beforehand and meet in a public place first. If the distance is large we call or video call first, and feel free to let a friend know where you are.
- “I don’t want any traces following me home.” I don’t keep our messages, and on my own I never write first. You can pay in cash.
- “Will we even speak the same language?” Dutch, English, or German: take your pick.
- “Is this actually reliable?” I work alone, under my own name, with reviews from women you can read. There’s no agency that just sends someone.
- “I don’t want a vacation romance that costs me money.” Fair enough. I’m clear from the start about what this is and what it isn’t, so you never have to guess.
- “Can it be without sex?” Yes. Dinner and a walk through the city, simply company. That’s a full evening.
Women who took their time
Over time your thoughts, your feelings and the atmosphere start to play together, and a reality of its own arises, a safe place to feel delicious. Over time you really start to feel it and believe it: that you truly are as precious as he treats you. Three days, it's full immersion.
For me that's, at no. 1, getting connection and relaxing.. and not straight back to reality..no time pressure Especially the first time..but now, after date 4, the sauna thing also helps to settle in and relax ...you keep a proper eye on all the boundaries , and when it feels good you seek more closeness..if not, just company is lovely, and that way we build calmly and relaxed toward intimacy
My experience with Victor was fantastic! I was incredibly nervous the first time, and it was so wonderful to notice that he picked up on that and gave me the space and time to settle in calmly. After that he took control, but in such a lovely way that I only wanted more of it.
A city that's yours for a while
Send me a message with your travel dates and destination. You’ll quickly hear whether I can be there. It reaches me, full stop, and nobody else.
I work alone, and travel takes planning. If your dates are already set, name them right away and you’ll know quickly whether I can be there.
Frequently asked questions
What women who travel often ask me
Can you come to my destination, and on how much notice?
Often, yes. Abroad is on request, so the sooner you send your dates, the better. Sometimes it works on short notice too: just send a message, and you’ll quickly hear whether it fits.
Which languages do you speak?
Dutch, English, and German. Talking for a whole evening in any of the three is no problem for me.
How do travel and the hotel work?
Those are included in the proposal you get from me. That way you know exactly where you stand beforehand, and there are no surprises along the way.
Can we video call first?
Yes, especially if the distance is large. You see who I am before you commit to anything, and the first meeting feels less strange.
Can it be without sex, just an evening out?
Yes. Dinner and a walk through the city is a full date. If you want more later, we simply talk about it.
Is it safe to meet someone in a foreign city?
We meet in a public place first, like your hotel lobby or a bar. Feel free to let someone know where you are, and you can always stop.
Does anything from this evening follow me home?
No. I don’t keep our messages, and I never reach out on my own. Want the exact details? They’re on my privacy page.