For you, if mediocrity isn't an option
A luxury male escort who remembers what you mentioned in passing
No introduction if you don't need one. Just a man who comes prepared and remembers what you enjoy.
Sound familiar?
You don't need to explain anything
Hi, I’m Victor. You know what quality is, so I’ll get straight to the point.
You’re used to the best. A private chef when you have guests, five stars when you travel. In your own circle, you’re the one people ask for a good recommendation. Only here, so far, you’ve run into mediocrity. A man who asks at the door where he can leave his boots, and there goes the desire. Or someone who has already forgotten, halfway through the evening, what you told him at the start.
Maybe you’ve booked this before, or a friend told you about me. Then you don’t need reassurance. You’re looking for someone who meets the standard you ask for everywhere else. As a birthday gift to yourself, for instance. Or you once read an interview with me, and afterward felt like you already knew me a little.
Maybe this sounds familiar
The boots at the door
“Where can I leave these?” And the mood is gone before he’s even inside.
The wine list
The waiter hands it to him. Even though you’re the one who knows what you want to drink.
"Her Italian"
A friend smiles mysteriously about him over lunch. You’re more curious than you let on.
The day before
Spa, hairdresser, and your own champagne already in your bag. The preparation is part of the pleasure.
You in a design hotel, him in a windbreaker
You made an effort. He clearly didn’t.
A detail from a passing remark
Weeks later he still remembers it. That’s the moment you relax.
This can be at your level too
You don’t have to pretend it’s only about the physical. Quality in attention is quality too. A man who looks at you when you talk, who comes prepared and adapts to you: you’re allowed to want exactly that.
Think of it as bespoke. You put together the menu, and I’m your personal chef. (I’ve been using that comparison for years, and it still holds.)
I decide who I see, and not every request makes it. That keeps it valuable, for you and for me.
If nothing changes, you accept here the mediocrity you refuse everywhere else. It doesn’t have to stay that way. This can be at your level too, and you don’t have to pretend it’s only about the physical.
An evening that's right down to the details
Picture this: a table at sunset, a bottle I picked out for you in advance, and a man who remembers that last time you’d rather not have oysters. The conversation turns to travel or to whatever is on your mind, and it never becomes routine.
After that, you decide how the evening continues. We agree on the mood and what to wear beforehand, in as much detail as you like. An evening often grows into a night, or into a few days together, for example in Amsterdam. Read more about arrangements, or let yourself be surprised with a mystery experience.
Want to go one step further? I have extensive BDSM experience, with a calm, natural dominance. You can read more about that under the BDSM date.
What you take home is the feeling of being seen by someone who can match your level. You may well call it the best money you spent all year.
Is time your scarcest thing, more than standard? Then read gigolo for successful women. If it’s about a city abroad, read on at gigolo while traveling.
Get straight to it, without detours?
Send me a message about what you have in mind. A long getting-to-know-you isn’t needed if you don’t want one.
Why me
I’m in my early fifties, I have a PhD, there are two books with my name on them, and I’ve given trainings all over the world, from Australia to America. So a conversation at your level comes naturally.
Skilled without becoming routine: I prepare, and I remember what you tell me. Including what you mentioned in passing.
I work alone. You’re not a number in a catalog, and you don’t have to explain to anyone else who you are or what you enjoy.
How it works
From a message to a bespoke experience
A message with your wishes
As short or as detailed as you like. If you've done this before, we skip the introduction.
Tuning in down to the details
Mood, clothing, place, and pace, and a role-play if you like. Everything that makes the difference for you, we discuss beforehand.
A proposal at your level
From a dinner to a few days together. Only when it's right is it set.
The evening itself
I come prepared, so all you have to do is enjoy. Everything can be discussed, nothing is required!!
As your plus-one, if you like
Along to a gala or the opera, as companionship only, with a story agreed in advance about how we know each other.
A standing ritual
If you liked it, it can become a regular moment. I remember what you enjoy, so you never start over. And from the fourth time on, more relaxed rules apply.
Discreet, in a small circle
Your first name is enough
In your circle, people know each other. I don’t need to know more than your first name.
No photo of me online
I’m not recognizable in any photo online. So nobody in your circle makes a connection.
No texts from me
The first step is always yours. If we cross paths elsewhere, I don’t know you.
A story agreed in advance
At a gala we both know how we met. We fix that in advance.
Nothing saved
I don’t keep our messages. What I remember are your wishes, not your details.
Nothing that stands out on your statement
Cash is fine. Choose the bank and it says plain coaching.
"Yes, but..."
- “Is he really at my level?” A PhD, work all over the world, and a man who prepares. Feel free to judge for yourself after the first conversation.
- “I expect perfection.” Then we’re a good match. You set the menu down to the details, and I make sure it’s right.
- “I don’t need an explanation, I know what I want.” Then we skip the introduction and tune in right away to what you ask for.
- “Is he pretending to want me?” I decide who I see, and if it isn’t a fit, I say no. What you get is real attention in an honest arrangement.
- “What if I get attached?” It’s allowed to tingle, especially if you book more often. The terms stay clear, and we simply talk about it.
- “Does he talk about me?” No. I don’t talk to anyone about who I see.
What women wrote about it
What a delightful evening it was again. That look, it made me warm right away. That was new, and great. And even though in a moment like that you give me complete freedom, there's actually not a single moment when I don't feel at ease. On the contrary, it stirs my feeling of love.
My first experience with Victor is honestly hard to put into words. I'd say, woman, don't doubt, this man is safe and offers very high quality, not just in bed but precisely alongside it too. Victor is incredibly good at sensing you and putting you at ease with his soft accent, warm eyes and strong arms.
Over time your thoughts, your feelings and the atmosphere start to play together, and a reality of its own arises, a safe place to feel delicious. Over time you really start to feel it and believe it: that you truly are as precious as he treats you. Three days, it's full immersion.
This at your level too
Send me a message about what you have in mind. You’ll get a proposal that suits you. Your message stays with me alone.
Thinking of a particular evening? Just say so.
Frequently asked questions
What women who know what they want ask me
Can you come along to a gala or the opera?
Yes. Beforehand we agree on how we know each other and what you tell people about me. My suit or tuxedo is ready, and for the rest of the evening you don’t have to think about a thing.
How does a multi-day arrangement work?
We go over your wishes and limits beforehand, in as much detail as you like. Then I arrange the rest. You can read more under arrangements.
Can I book you regularly, and will you remember what I enjoy?
Yes. Some women make it a standing moment, and I remember what you enjoy. So you never have to start over.
Can we tune in right away, without a long getting-to-know-you?
Yes. If you know what you want, we go over your wishes and limits briefly and clearly, and skip the rest.
What if I get attached?
That can happen, especially if you book more often. It’s allowed to tingle. I stay honest about what this is, and if saying goodbye after a date feels heavy, you can simply tell me.
What is a mystery experience?
An evening I put together for you, within the limits you set beforehand. You only know it will be right, not what’s coming. You can read more under mystery experience.
Do you talk to others about me?
No. I don’t talk to anyone about who I see, and there’s no recognizable photo of me online. The full explanation is on my privacy page.