More women are choosing a gigolo

The idea that only lonely, pitiable women hire a gigolo is completely outdated. That stigma smells like the 1950s, back when a woman was expected to stay in a man’s shadow. In my own work I meet more of these women every year, and not one of them fits that tired old picture. Welcome to the 21st century, where nobody owes those narrow-minded opinions a second thought.

Dating is a lottery, and the odds of winning are terrible

Ah, modern dating. It is like buying a lottery ticket, except instead of a million euros you keep winning a voucher for socks. You go on a date hoping for Mr. Fantastic and end up, time after time, with Mr. Meh. It is a bit like walking into the bakery and grabbing the first roll you see because it happens to be on sale. Crunchy on the outside, dry as a desert within.

So why not try a different approach? Instead of grabbing something useless at random, you could tell the baker, “Hi, I want something special, something that actually suits my taste.” Suddenly that friendly baker has a few treats ready that blow your taste buds away.

The same goes for dating, ladies. Rather than hoping for something special and being let down every time, you can make your preferences clear and go for quality. Why settle for a mediocre roll when you can have a gastronomic masterpiece? And sometimes, yes, sometimes that means booking a gigolo who knows exactly how to serve you. On a silver platter, naturally. Speak your preferences out loud and choose the best. That is what it all comes down to, right?

The old stigma is a dinosaur from a distant age

The stereotype of the “ugly or pitiable woman who hires a gigolo” belongs in the past once and for all. That image was handed down by a patriarchal society that begrudges women their sexuality, and it is a direct insult to the many successful, confident women, plenty of them beautiful too, who enjoy the discreet and professional company of a gigolo.

Over the centuries women have cleared so many obstacles that it looks like they have run an entire course of prejudice and crossed the finish line as winners every single time. They shattered glass ceilings as if they were armored windshield wipers, with the grace of a ballerina and the force of a wrecking ball. They fought their way out of the idea that they could only ever be housewives and rose from the ashes to run companies and head up laboratories. Some of them run countries now. So if they can beat one prejudice, they can beat them all. Including the narrow-minded notion that gigolos are only for pitiable women.

Funnily enough, it is exactly the women who value themselves who book a gigolo. A woman who knows her worth does not settle for the middle of the road. She looks for the best there is, in her love life too. Why put up with a plain cup of coffee when you can enjoy a full-service, breath-catching, applause-worthy evening?

Stunning models and powerhouse women

Let me be clear. Models and highly successful women are gorgeous and formidable, and they are usually busier than a pop-up shop on Black Friday. These women place enormous value on their time and energy, and above all on their privacy. That is exactly why they often choose, very deliberately, to spend that time with a good-looking, experienced gigolo who understands discretion. Far better than some odd stranger off the internet whose performance in bed is anyone’s guess.

A gigolo is the VIP section of dating life. Where a dating app can feel like fishing in a pond full of tadpoles, a gigolo gives you direct access to a high-quality, curated experience. Want a fine dinner followed by a night full of passion? No problem. A gigolo guarantees quality and discretion, and those matter a great deal to a woman of status.

Discretion is worth its weight in gold

Do not forget that success and fame can turn your life into a glass house. Social media, paparazzi, and gossip channels are like hungry vultures waiting for a public scandal. This is where a gigolo comes in like a reliable vault. No indiscreet WhatsApp messages, no embarrassing Facebook tags. Just a professional service that understands how much discretion matters.

Real quality? Absolutely

Do you think a woman who chases the very best in her career, day in and day out, would settle for less in her private life? Not a chance. A gigolo is trained and selected to meet very high standards. So when you book a gigolo, you know you are getting top quality. Not whoever happens to smile nicely in a Tinder photo.

It is high time this stigma around women and gigolos came down for good. A modern woman, whether she models, runs a company, or fills concert halls, has every right to enjoy her time and her sexuality on her own terms. And choosing a gigolo is no sign of weakness. It is a sign of intelligence and self-confidence.

For years I worked as a climbing instructor, and safety was never a side issue to me. It is a way of life. That is why I never mess around with cheap junk or DIY fixes that would look more at home in a kindergarten craft project. I go for the best safety gear there is. Sure, I could have saved money with some duct tape and a prayer, but honestly, “panic on the descent” is not on my bucket list. So do yourself a favor and choose quality. You are worth it.

So ladies, what are you waiting for? Put that old stigma out with the trash and remember: you are the boss of your own life. Your time, your choices, your pleasure. And if that happens to involve an attractive gigolo who is experienced and genuinely discreet, then power to you.