<?xml version="1.0" encoding="UTF-8"?><rss version="2.0"><channel><title>Gigolo Victor — Blog</title><link>https://gigolo-victor.com/en/blog</link><description>Gigolo Victor</description><language>en</language><item><title>Podcast interview: Victor on what BDSM really is</title><link>https://gigolo-victor.com/en/blog/bdsm/podcast-interview-what-bdsm-really-is/</link><guid>https://gigolo-victor.com/en/blog/bdsm/podcast-interview-what-bdsm-really-is/</guid><description>Jolanda from Brabants Meisje interviews Victor about what BDSM really is, beyond the whips, about dominance and why it stays equal for him.</description><pubDate>Sat, 15 Aug 2026 00:00:00 GMT</pubDate></item><item><title>Medical play without the white coat: the exam is the scene</title><link>https://gigolo-victor.com/en/blog/bdsm/medical-play-without-a-white-coat/</link><guid>https://gigolo-victor.com/en/blog/bdsm/medical-play-without-a-white-coat/</guid><description>The most-played form of medical play uses no instrument at all. What happens instead, why lying still works, and where the law begins.</description><pubDate>Wed, 12 Aug 2026 00:00:00 GMT</pubDate></item><item><title>Your first time at a play party: what to expect</title><link>https://gigolo-victor.com/en/blog/bdsm/your-first-play-party/</link><guid>https://gigolo-victor.com/en/blog/bdsm/your-first-play-party/</guid><description>What happens at a play party, who the DM is, how the house rules work, and why watching is the most normal thing to do all evening.</description><pubDate>Wed, 12 Aug 2026 00:00:00 GMT</pubDate></item><item><title>Anal play: from the first time to a plug</title><link>https://gigolo-victor.com/en/blog/sex/anal-play-from-first-time-to-plug/</link><guid>https://gigolo-victor.com/en/blog/sex/anal-play-from-first-time-to-plug/</guid><description>How anal play works, why lube is not optional, which toys are safe, and why a flared base is the one rule that really matters.</description><pubDate>Wed, 12 Aug 2026 00:00:00 GMT</pubDate></item><item><title>Meeting a gigolo at his home: what to watch for</title><link>https://gigolo-victor.com/en/blog/private-reception-at-his-place/</link><guid>https://gigolo-victor.com/en/blog/private-reception-at-his-place/</guid><description>Meeting a gigolo at his home sounds discreet and saves a hotel. Is it even allowed, what changes once you step inside, and what do you arrange first?</description><pubDate>Sat, 08 Aug 2026 00:00:00 GMT</pubDate></item><item><title>BDSM fantasy and your partner isn&apos;t into it: how to handle it</title><link>https://gigolo-victor.com/en/blog/bdsm/partner-not-into-bdsm/</link><guid>https://gigolo-victor.com/en/blog/bdsm/partner-not-into-bdsm/</guid><description>You have a BDSM fantasy and your partner isn&apos;t into it. What you can and can&apos;t do, how to have the conversation, and why pushing backfires.</description><pubDate>Fri, 07 Aug 2026 00:00:00 GMT</pubDate></item><item><title>First time at a swingers club: a practical guide for women</title><link>https://gigolo-victor.com/en/blog/companionship/first-time-swingers-club/</link><guid>https://gigolo-victor.com/en/blog/companionship/first-time-swingers-club/</guid><description>Going to a swingers club for the first time: which night to pick, the house rules, how to say no, and why just watching is completely normal.</description><pubDate>Fri, 07 Aug 2026 00:00:00 GMT</pubDate></item><item><title>Hiring a plus one for a wedding or party: how discreet it stays</title><link>https://gigolo-victor.com/en/blog/companionship/hire-a-plus-one/</link><guid>https://gigolo-victor.com/en/blog/companionship/hire-a-plus-one/</guid><description>Hiring a plus one for a wedding, party, or business dinner: how you arrange it, the backstory you agree on, and why no one notices a thing.</description><pubDate>Fri, 07 Aug 2026 00:00:00 GMT</pubDate></item><item><title>An evening for yourself: why that is not selfish</title><link>https://gigolo-victor.com/en/blog/connection/an-evening-for-yourself/</link><guid>https://gigolo-victor.com/en/blog/connection/an-evening-for-yourself/</guid><description>Why an evening that revolves only around you feels so hard to take, how it differs from pampering, and why caring for others does not suffer.</description><pubDate>Fri, 07 Aug 2026 00:00:00 GMT</pubDate></item><item><title>Emotional loneliness: being lonely when you are not alone</title><link>https://gigolo-victor.com/en/blog/connection/emotional-loneliness/</link><guid>https://gigolo-victor.com/en/blog/connection/emotional-loneliness/</guid><description>Emotional loneliness is feeling unseen with a partner beside you. What it is, why it is so hard to name, and what helps.</description><pubDate>Fri, 07 Aug 2026 00:00:00 GMT</pubDate></item><item><title>Widow&apos;s fire: desire for touch during grief</title><link>https://gigolo-victor.com/en/blog/connection/widows-fire/</link><guid>https://gigolo-victor.com/en/blog/connection/widows-fire/</guid><description>Widow&apos;s fire is the sudden desire for touch soon after a partner dies. Where it comes from, why it is normal, and what you can do with it.</description><pubDate>Fri, 07 Aug 2026 00:00:00 GMT</pubDate></item><item><title>How to spot a trustworthy gigolo and avoid scams</title><link>https://gigolo-victor.com/en/blog/spot-a-trustworthy-gigolo/</link><guid>https://gigolo-victor.com/en/blog/spot-a-trustworthy-gigolo/</guid><description>How do you spot a trustworthy gigolo and avoid a scam? A practical checklist to run through before you commit or pay a cent.</description><pubDate>Fri, 07 Aug 2026 00:00:00 GMT</pubDate></item><item><title>When your date with a gigolo doesn&apos;t go as planned</title><link>https://gigolo-victor.com/en/blog/when-the-date-doesnt-go-as-planned/</link><guid>https://gigolo-victor.com/en/blog/when-the-date-doesnt-go-as-planned/</guid><description>What to do when it doesn&apos;t click, you change your mind, or something goes wrong on a date. Your rights, and what it costs you.</description><pubDate>Fri, 07 Aug 2026 00:00:00 GMT</pubDate></item><item><title>Insecure about your body after a divorce: how do you get going again?</title><link>https://gigolo-victor.com/en/blog/relations/body-insecurity-after-divorce/</link><guid>https://gigolo-victor.com/en/blog/relations/body-insecurity-after-divorce/</guid><description>After a divorce your body can suddenly feel wrong. Where the insecurity comes from, why losing weight rarely helps, and what actually does.</description><pubDate>Fri, 07 Aug 2026 00:00:00 GMT</pubDate></item><item><title>Wanting sex again after divorce: how to find your desire again</title><link>https://gigolo-victor.com/en/blog/relations/desire-again-after-divorce/</link><guid>https://gigolo-victor.com/en/blog/relations/desire-again-after-divorce/</guid><description>Wanting sex again after divorce rarely happens overnight. Why desire fades, why it comes back, and what you can do with it.</description><pubDate>Fri, 07 Aug 2026 00:00:00 GMT</pubDate></item><item><title>Is booking a gigolo cheating? The real answer</title><link>https://gigolo-victor.com/en/blog/relations/is-booking-a-gigolo-cheating/</link><guid>https://gigolo-victor.com/en/blog/relations/is-booking-a-gigolo-cheating/</guid><description>Whether it&apos;s cheating depends on whether your partner knows and agrees. Why half-knowing isn&apos;t real consent, and how to have the talk.</description><pubDate>Fri, 07 Aug 2026 00:00:00 GMT</pubDate></item><item><title>Arranging a threesome with a gigolo: how to do it safely</title><link>https://gigolo-victor.com/en/blog/relations/threesome-with-a-gigolo/</link><guid>https://gigolo-victor.com/en/blog/relations/threesome-with-a-gigolo/</guid><description>Arranging a threesome with a gigolo without damaging your relationship. The agreements to make first, and what goes wrong when you skip them.</description><pubDate>Fri, 07 Aug 2026 00:00:00 GMT</pubDate></item><item><title>Starting over after a bad experience: allowing intimacy</title><link>https://gigolo-victor.com/en/blog/sex/intimacy-again-after-trauma/</link><guid>https://gigolo-victor.com/en/blog/sex/intimacy-again-after-trauma/</guid><description>Allowing intimacy again after a bad sexual experience goes in small steps. What helps, what backfires, and when professional help is the better route.</description><pubDate>Fri, 07 Aug 2026 00:00:00 GMT</pubDate></item><item><title>Tantra massage vs erotic massage: what is the difference?</title><link>https://gigolo-victor.com/en/blog/sex/tantra-vs-erotic-massage/</link><guid>https://gigolo-victor.com/en/blog/sex/tantra-vs-erotic-massage/</guid><description>The difference is in the goal, not the touch. Why that matters in practice, and the questions to ask so you know what you are buying.</description><pubDate>Fri, 07 Aug 2026 00:00:00 GMT</pubDate></item><item><title>Vaginismus and first-time pain: discovering it calmly</title><link>https://gigolo-victor.com/en/blog/sex/vaginismus-and-first-time-pain/</link><guid>https://gigolo-victor.com/en/blog/sex/vaginismus-and-first-time-pain/</guid><description>First-time pain rarely comes because it is meant to. What vaginismus is, why tension is the core of it, and how to approach it without pressure.</description><pubDate>Fri, 07 Aug 2026 00:00:00 GMT</pubDate></item><item><title>Still a virgin later in life: is that strange or abnormal?</title><link>https://gigolo-victor.com/en/blog/sex/virgin-at-an-older-age/</link><guid>https://gigolo-victor.com/en/blog/sex/virgin-at-an-older-age/</guid><description>Still a virgin at thirty, forty, or later is more common than people think. Where the barrier comes from, and how a calm first time can look.</description><pubDate>Fri, 07 Aug 2026 00:00:00 GMT</pubDate></item><item><title>What is a yoni massage and what exactly happens?</title><link>https://gigolo-victor.com/en/blog/sex/what-is-a-yoni-massage/</link><guid>https://gigolo-victor.com/en/blog/sex/what-is-a-yoni-massage/</guid><description>A yoni massage is a tantric massage aimed at relaxation, not at climax. What the word means and how such a session unfolds.</description><pubDate>Fri, 07 Aug 2026 00:00:00 GMT</pubDate></item><item><title>Wheel of Consent: how I put consent into practice</title><link>https://gigolo-victor.com/en/blog/connection/communication/wheel-of-consent/</link><guid>https://gigolo-victor.com/en/blog/connection/communication/wheel-of-consent/</guid><description>Four quadrants that make clear who does what and why. How I use the Wheel of Consent for a first time or after a hard experience.</description><pubDate>Tue, 28 Jul 2026 00:00:00 GMT</pubDate></item><item><title>SM Room for Rent: BDSM Rooms and Play Spaces in the Netherlands and Beyond</title><link>https://gigolo-victor.com/en/blog/bdsm/rent-a-bdsm-room/</link><guid>https://gigolo-victor.com/en/blog/bdsm/rent-a-bdsm-room/</guid><description>BDSM rooms and SM play spaces for rent across the Netherlands, Belgium, France and Germany: SM cottages, SM B&amp;Bs, setup, prices and what to check.</description><pubDate>Mon, 27 Jul 2026 00:00:00 GMT</pubDate></item><item><title>Podcast interview: Victor on BDSM and being a gigolo</title><link>https://gigolo-victor.com/en/blog/bdsm/podcast-interview-victor-on-bdsm-and-being-a-gigolo/</link><guid>https://gigolo-victor.com/en/blog/bdsm/podcast-interview-victor-on-bdsm-and-being-a-gigolo/</guid><description>The full transcript of BDSM Vrouw Podcast #35, where Mistress Moria asks Victor about his work, his limits, aftercare, and the taboo around a gigolo.</description><pubDate>Wed, 22 Jul 2026 00:00:00 GMT</pubDate></item><item><title>Why I don&apos;t do quickies as a gigolo</title><link>https://gigolo-victor.com/en/blog/connection/depth/why-i-dont-do-quickies/</link><guid>https://gigolo-victor.com/en/blog/connection/depth/why-i-dont-do-quickies/</guid><description>Why I don&apos;t offer quickies as a gigolo, what rushing does to intimacy, and why a meeting with me lasts at least two hours.</description><pubDate>Wed, 22 Jul 2026 00:00:00 GMT</pubDate></item><item><title>Podcast interview: Victor on threesomes, swingers clubs, and spaghetti sex</title><link>https://gigolo-victor.com/en/blog/sex/podcast-interview-threesomes-and-swingers-clubs/</link><guid>https://gigolo-victor.com/en/blog/sex/podcast-interview-threesomes-and-swingers-clubs/</guid><description>Jolanda of Brabants Meisje interviews Victor: his first swingers club, why nothing is &apos;required&apos; in a threesome, and the apple pie conversation.</description><pubDate>Wed, 22 Jul 2026 00:00:00 GMT</pubDate></item><item><title>BDSM for Beginners: How to Try It Safely as a Woman</title><link>https://gigolo-victor.com/en/blog/bdsm/bdsm-for-beginners-women/</link><guid>https://gigolo-victor.com/en/blog/bdsm/bdsm-for-beginners-women/</guid><description>BDSM for beginners: how you try it safely as a woman, at your own pace, with clear limits set beforehand and real aftercare afterward.</description><pubDate>Fri, 03 Jul 2026 00:00:00 GMT</pubDate></item><item><title>Professional cuddling: what it is and how it works</title><link>https://gigolo-victor.com/en/blog/skinhunger/professional-cuddling/</link><guid>https://gigolo-victor.com/en/blog/skinhunger/professional-cuddling/</guid><description>Professional cuddling is cuddling by appointment, clothes on and nothing sexual about it. Here is how it works, and who it is for.</description><pubDate>Fri, 03 Jul 2026 00:00:00 GMT</pubDate></item><item><title>Married Emma visits a gigolo every month</title><link>https://gigolo-victor.com/en/blog/relations/married-emma-visits-a-gigolo-monthly/</link><guid>https://gigolo-victor.com/en/blog/relations/married-emma-visits-a-gigolo-monthly/</guid><description>Emma (51) is happily married but misses sex due to her husband&apos;s low libido. Every month she visits a gigolo, and recommends it to any woman.</description><pubDate>Sat, 21 Feb 2026 00:00:00 GMT</pubDate></item><item><title>Anna is married to a gigolo #1: the introduction</title><link>https://gigolo-victor.com/en/blog/relations/married-to-a-gigolo-1-the-introduction/</link><guid>https://gigolo-victor.com/en/blog/relations/married-to-a-gigolo-1-the-introduction/</guid><description>Anna, a newly divorced mum of two, places her first BDSM ad and meets gigolo Victor. Part 1 of her true story.</description><pubDate>Sun, 25 Jan 2026 00:00:00 GMT</pubDate></item><item><title>Married to a gigolo #2: first BDSM date</title><link>https://gigolo-victor.com/en/blog/relations/married-to-a-gigolo-2-first-bdsm-date/</link><guid>https://gigolo-victor.com/en/blog/relations/married-to-a-gigolo-2-first-bdsm-date/</guid><description>Heart pounding, Anna drives to her first BDSM date with Victor and discovers a safe, thrilling side of herself. Part 2 of her story.</description><pubDate>Sun, 25 Jan 2026 00:00:00 GMT</pubDate></item><item><title>Married to a gigolo #3: Victor&apos;s new side job</title><link>https://gigolo-victor.com/en/blog/relations/married-to-a-gigolo-3-victors-new-side-job/</link><guid>https://gigolo-victor.com/en/blog/relations/married-to-a-gigolo-3-victors-new-side-job/</guid><description>Anna encourages her partner Victor to work as a gigolo on the side. Part 3 of their story about his surprising new side job.</description><pubDate>Sun, 25 Jan 2026 00:00:00 GMT</pubDate></item><item><title>Married to a gigolo #4: lying alone in bed</title><link>https://gigolo-victor.com/en/blog/relations/married-to-a-gigolo-4-hard-to-lie-in-bed-alone/</link><guid>https://gigolo-victor.com/en/blog/relations/married-to-a-gigolo-4-hard-to-lie-in-bed-alone/</guid><description>Jealous of your partner&apos;s client? Anna feels it for the first time when Victor meets the experienced Bianca. Part 4 of her story.</description><pubDate>Sun, 25 Jan 2026 00:00:00 GMT</pubDate></item><item><title>Married to a gigolo #5: I can&apos;t deny my jealousy</title><link>https://gigolo-victor.com/en/blog/relations/married-to-a-gigolo-5-cant-deny-my-jealousy/</link><guid>https://gigolo-victor.com/en/blog/relations/married-to-a-gigolo-5-cant-deny-my-jealousy/</guid><description>Talking to your partner about jealousy feels nerve-wracking. Anna opens up to Victor, and his reassurance brings the calm back. Part 5 of her story.</description><pubDate>Sun, 25 Jan 2026 00:00:00 GMT</pubDate></item><item><title>Married to a gigolo #6: exciting BDSM parties</title><link>https://gigolo-victor.com/en/blog/relations/married-to-a-gigolo-6-the-bdsm-parties-are-exciting/</link><guid>https://gigolo-victor.com/en/blog/relations/married-to-a-gigolo-6-the-bdsm-parties-are-exciting/</guid><description>Anna and Victor deepen their bond through intense sex and BDSM parties, and marry in secret. The finale of her remarkable story.</description><pubDate>Sun, 25 Jan 2026 00:00:00 GMT</pubDate></item><item><title>Mariska regularly meets a gigolo</title><link>https://gigolo-victor.com/en/blog/relations/mariska-regularly-meets-a-gigolo/</link><guid>https://gigolo-victor.com/en/blog/relations/mariska-regularly-meets-a-gigolo/</guid><description>Abused as a child, Mariska (43) never enjoyed sex. Seeing a gigolo, she finally finds intimacy and confidence.</description><pubDate>Mon, 19 Jan 2026 00:00:00 GMT</pubDate></item><item><title>Maud met a gigolo: &apos;I want more&apos;</title><link>https://gigolo-victor.com/en/blog/relations/maud-met-a-gigolo-i-wanted-more/</link><guid>https://gigolo-victor.com/en/blog/relations/maud-met-a-gigolo-i-wanted-more/</guid><description>A gigolo after a narcissistic relationship? Maud wanted safe intimacy and got her confidence and her desire for sex back through Victor.</description><pubDate>Sat, 29 Nov 2025 00:00:00 GMT</pubDate></item><item><title>Discovering your submissive side with a BDSM gigolo</title><link>https://gigolo-victor.com/en/blog/hiring-a-bdsm-gigolo-why-not/</link><guid>https://gigolo-victor.com/en/blog/hiring-a-bdsm-gigolo-why-not/</guid><description>Curious about your submissive side? Here is why hiring me, a professional BDSM gigolo in Amsterdam, is the safest first step into surrender.</description><pubDate>Sat, 01 Nov 2025 00:00:00 GMT</pubDate></item><item><title>Hiring a gigolo?</title><link>https://gigolo-victor.com/en/blog/hiring-a-gigolo/</link><guid>https://gigolo-victor.com/en/blog/hiring-a-gigolo/</guid><description>Hiring a gigolo as a woman? Merle Hebing talks with gigolo Victor about the stigma and why women deserve an exciting night too.</description><pubDate>Sat, 01 Nov 2025 00:00:00 GMT</pubDate></item><item><title>What is mummification?</title><link>https://gigolo-victor.com/en/blog/bdsm/bondage/what-is-mummification/</link><guid>https://gigolo-victor.com/en/blog/bdsm/bondage/what-is-mummification/</guid><description>What is mummification in BDSM? How full surrender, trust, and being wrapped completely still turn into deep, intense arousal.</description><pubDate>Sat, 11 Oct 2025 00:00:00 GMT</pubDate></item><item><title>What Is Spanking?</title><link>https://gigolo-victor.com/en/blog/bdsm/spanking/what-is-spanking/</link><guid>https://gigolo-victor.com/en/blog/bdsm/spanking/what-is-spanking/</guid><description>What is spanking, and why can a smack feel like pain one second and pleasure the next? Buildup, surrender, and safe play with consent.</description><pubDate>Sat, 11 Oct 2025 00:00:00 GMT</pubDate></item><item><title>Where do I find an affordable gigolo without hidden costs?</title><link>https://gigolo-victor.com/en/blog/affordable-gigolo-no-hidden-costs/</link><guid>https://gigolo-victor.com/en/blog/affordable-gigolo-no-hidden-costs/</guid><description>Find an affordable gigolo with no hidden costs: one clear rate, no agency fee, and the full amount confirmed before you say yes. Here&apos;s how I keep it honest.</description><pubDate>Sat, 11 Oct 2025 00:00:00 GMT</pubDate></item><item><title>How do you choose a gigolo you can actually trust?</title><link>https://gigolo-victor.com/en/blog/choose-a-trustworthy-gigolo/</link><guid>https://gigolo-victor.com/en/blog/choose-a-trustworthy-gigolo/</guid><description>How do you know who you&apos;re really booking? I skip the agency and give you direct contact, an honest profile, real reviews, and a coffee date first.</description><pubDate>Sat, 11 Oct 2025 00:00:00 GMT</pubDate></item><item><title>How do I arrange a private date with an experienced gigolo?</title><link>https://gigolo-victor.com/en/blog/book-a-private-date-with-a-gigolo/</link><guid>https://gigolo-victor.com/en/blog/book-a-private-date-with-a-gigolo/</guid><description>How to book a private, discreet date with an experienced gigolo, from the first message to a relaxed meeting and planning it in.</description><pubDate>Sat, 11 Oct 2025 00:00:00 GMT</pubDate></item><item><title>How to find a gigolo you can trust</title><link>https://gigolo-victor.com/en/blog/how-to-find-a-gigolo/</link><guid>https://gigolo-victor.com/en/blog/how-to-find-a-gigolo/</guid><description>Wondering how to find a gigolo you can trust? My honest take on agencies versus booking me directly, plus the red flags worth watching for.</description><pubDate>Sat, 11 Oct 2025 00:00:00 GMT</pubDate></item><item><title>How do I book a gigolo who comes to my home, fast?</title><link>https://gigolo-victor.com/en/blog/book-a-gigolo-to-your-home/</link><guid>https://gigolo-victor.com/en/blog/book-a-gigolo-to-your-home/</guid><description>Book a gigolo to your home in three steps: fast, discreet, and safe, with clear rates you know before you say yes.</description><pubDate>Sat, 11 Oct 2025 00:00:00 GMT</pubDate></item><item><title>Find a gigolo who matches your preferences</title><link>https://gigolo-victor.com/en/blog/find-a-gigolo-for-your-preferences/</link><guid>https://gigolo-victor.com/en/blog/find-a-gigolo-for-your-preferences/</guid><description>Five practical steps to find a gigolo who matches your preferences, from naming what you want to reading a first message and meeting in person.</description><pubDate>Sat, 11 Oct 2025 00:00:00 GMT</pubDate></item><item><title>How do I find a reliable gigolo in the Netherlands?</title><link>https://gigolo-victor.com/en/blog/reliable-gigolo-netherlands/</link><guid>https://gigolo-victor.com/en/blog/reliable-gigolo-netherlands/</guid><description>Wondering how to find a reliable gigolo in the Netherlands? What I would check first: real photos, clear prices, consent, and a direct line to me.</description><pubDate>Sat, 11 Oct 2025 00:00:00 GMT</pubDate></item><item><title>How do I find a gigolo who replies fast?</title><link>https://gigolo-victor.com/en/blog/gigolo-who-replies-fast/</link><guid>https://gigolo-victor.com/en/blog/gigolo-who-replies-fast/</guid><description>How to find a gigolo who replies fast: book me directly so you talk to me from your first message, no agency passing notes back and forth.</description><pubDate>Sat, 11 Oct 2025 00:00:00 GMT</pubDate></item><item><title>Which gigolo providers guarantee full anonymity?</title><link>https://gigolo-victor.com/en/blog/gigolo-providers-guaranteeing-full-anonymity/</link><guid>https://gigolo-victor.com/en/blog/gigolo-providers-guaranteeing-full-anonymity/</guid><description>Full anonymity with a gigolo rests on three pillars: digital privacy, social discretion, and untraceable payment. 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I don&apos;t chase perfection. I read what you need that evening and become the companion who fits it. Here&apos;s how.</description><pubDate>Sat, 11 Oct 2025 00:00:00 GMT</pubDate></item><item><title>Popular gigolo services in major cities</title><link>https://gigolo-victor.com/en/blog/popular-gigolo-services-in-major-cities/</link><guid>https://gigolo-victor.com/en/blog/popular-gigolo-services-in-major-cities/</guid><description>The five most-booked gigolo services in Amsterdam and Rotterdam, from the boyfriend experience to BDSM, dinner dates, roleplay and first-time care.</description><pubDate>Sat, 11 Oct 2025 00:00:00 GMT</pubDate></item><item><title>Book a gigolo without fear the first time</title><link>https://gigolo-victor.com/en/blog/book-a-gigolo-without-fear/</link><guid>https://gigolo-victor.com/en/blog/book-a-gigolo-without-fear/</guid><description>Afraid to book a gigolo? 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Here is why women choose one, and how discretion and real connection work.</description><pubDate>Mon, 28 Apr 2025 00:00:00 GMT</pubDate></item><item><title>High Class Gigolo</title><link>https://gigolo-victor.com/en/blog/high-class-gigolo/</link><guid>https://gigolo-victor.com/en/blog/high-class-gigolo/</guid><description>What a high class gigolo really offers women who want luxury and quiet seduction, set entirely at your pace and kept between the two of us.</description><pubDate>Mon, 28 Apr 2025 00:00:00 GMT</pubDate></item><item><title>Gigolo James</title><link>https://gigolo-victor.com/en/blog/gigolo-james/</link><guid>https://gigolo-victor.com/en/blog/gigolo-james/</guid><description>A light and entirely fictional tale about Gigolo James, the cheese-loving Casanova of the Low Countries who wins hearts one slice of Gouda at a time.</description><pubDate>Fri, 25 Apr 2025 00:00:00 GMT</pubDate></item><item><title>What is a paydate?</title><link>https://gigolo-victor.com/en/blog/what-is-a-paydate/</link><guid>https://gigolo-victor.com/en/blog/what-is-a-paydate/</guid><description>What is a paydate? 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Why it matters so much for women, and what to look for when you book a gigolo.</description><pubDate>Sun, 20 Oct 2024 00:00:00 GMT</pubDate></item><item><title>Feedback in BDSM: Talking Matters as Much as Playing</title><link>https://gigolo-victor.com/en/blog/bdsm/feedback-in-bdsm/</link><guid>https://gigolo-victor.com/en/blog/bdsm/feedback-in-bdsm/</guid><description>Feedback in BDSM builds trust and safety. 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The technique, the safety, and the psychology, for anyone curious.</description><pubDate>Sat, 12 Oct 2024 00:00:00 GMT</pubDate></item><item><title>Deep Throating: The Pleasure of Deep Sensations</title><link>https://gigolo-victor.com/en/blog/sex/deep-throating-pleasure-of-deep-sensations/</link><guid>https://gigolo-victor.com/en/blog/sex/deep-throating-pleasure-of-deep-sensations/</guid><description>Discover deep throating: why it excites women, plus techniques for relaxation, breathing, and communication for deeper pleasure.</description><pubDate>Sat, 12 Oct 2024 00:00:00 GMT</pubDate></item><item><title>The Yacht</title><link>https://gigolo-victor.com/en/blog/sex/erotic-stories/the-yacht/</link><guid>https://gigolo-victor.com/en/blog/sex/erotic-stories/the-yacht/</guid><description>An erotic story about a woman who spends a sultry summer day aboard a luxurious private yacht, full of luxury, longing, and sensual adventure.</description><pubDate>Sat, 12 Oct 2024 00:00:00 GMT</pubDate></item><item><title>Blindfold Play in BDSM: Sensory Restriction</title><link>https://gigolo-victor.com/en/blog/bdsm/bondage/blindfold-play-in-bdsm/</link><guid>https://gigolo-victor.com/en/blog/bdsm/bondage/blindfold-play-in-bdsm/</guid><description>Blindfold play in BDSM sharpens your senses and deepens trust. How taking sight away leads to more surrender and pleasure.</description><pubDate>Fri, 11 Oct 2024 00:00:00 GMT</pubDate></item><item><title>Self-acceptance with a gigolo: transform your relationships</title><link>https://gigolo-victor.com/en/blog/relations/journey-to-self-acceptance/</link><guid>https://gigolo-victor.com/en/blog/relations/journey-to-self-acceptance/</guid><description>How booking a gigolo can build your confidence, deepen self-acceptance and reshape the way you connect with others.</description><pubDate>Fri, 11 Oct 2024 00:00:00 GMT</pubDate></item><item><title>A male sugar baby is called a gigolo</title><link>https://gigolo-victor.com/en/blog/male-sugar-baby-called-a-gigolo/</link><guid>https://gigolo-victor.com/en/blog/male-sugar-baby-called-a-gigolo/</guid><description>A male sugar baby is usually called a gigolo. 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A clear look at the focus, the services and the emotional connection behind each one.</description><pubDate>Tue, 10 Sep 2024 00:00:00 GMT</pubDate></item><item><title>Whipping in BDSM: the benefits that might surprise you</title><link>https://gigolo-victor.com/en/blog/bdsm/whips/benefits-of-whipping-in-bdsm/</link><guid>https://gigolo-victor.com/en/blog/bdsm/whips/benefits-of-whipping-in-bdsm/</guid><description>The benefits of whipping in BDSM: less stress, less lingering pain, and a deeper connection with your partner.</description><pubDate>Mon, 09 Sep 2024 00:00:00 GMT</pubDate></item><item><title>What Can a Gigolo Do for Me? More Than You Think</title><link>https://gigolo-victor.com/en/blog/what-can-a-gigolo-do-for-me/</link><guid>https://gigolo-victor.com/en/blog/what-can-a-gigolo-do-for-me/</guid><description>What does a gigolo really do? Companionship, intimacy, a listening ear and space to explore your desires without judgment.</description><pubDate>Mon, 09 Sep 2024 00:00:00 GMT</pubDate></item><item><title>The Art of Paddling: Paddle Techniques for Women</title><link>https://gigolo-victor.com/en/blog/bdsm/spanking/the-art-of-paddling/</link><guid>https://gigolo-victor.com/en/blog/bdsm/spanking/the-art-of-paddling/</guid><description>The art of paddling: techniques, materials, and safety in paddle play. How sensation turns into pleasure, with consent and trust.</description><pubDate>Sun, 08 Sep 2024 00:00:00 GMT</pubDate></item><item><title>Why experts recommend a gigolo for vaginismus</title><link>https://gigolo-victor.com/en/blog/sex/vaginismus/why-a-gigolo-helps-with-vaginismus/</link><guid>https://gigolo-victor.com/en/blog/sex/vaginismus/why-a-gigolo-helps-with-vaginismus/</guid><description>Why psychologists and sexologists suggest a gigolo alongside vaginismus care: safe guidance, patience, and a step back toward pain-free intimacy.</description><pubDate>Sun, 08 Sep 2024 00:00:00 GMT</pubDate></item><item><title>Hiring a Professional Gigolo Can Improve Your Relationships</title><link>https://gigolo-victor.com/en/blog/relations/hiring-a-gigolo-to-improve-relationships/</link><guid>https://gigolo-victor.com/en/blog/relations/hiring-a-gigolo-to-improve-relationships/</guid><description>See how hiring a professional gigolo can lift your confidence, sharpen communication, and bring fresh energy to your love life.</description><pubDate>Sat, 07 Sep 2024 00:00:00 GMT</pubDate></item><item><title>Cheap gigolo: the risks and drawbacks</title><link>https://gigolo-victor.com/en/blog/cheap-gigolo-risks-and-drawbacks/</link><guid>https://gigolo-victor.com/en/blog/cheap-gigolo-risks-and-drawbacks/</guid><description>The risks and drawbacks of a cheap gigolo, from health and safety to weak professionalism, poor support, and no serious screening.</description><pubDate>Thu, 05 Sep 2024 00:00:00 GMT</pubDate></item><item><title>Hiring a gigolo to ease loneliness: can it really help?</title><link>https://gigolo-victor.com/en/blog/relations/hiring-a-gigolo-my-best-decision-ever/</link><guid>https://gigolo-victor.com/en/blog/relations/hiring-a-gigolo-my-best-decision-ever/</guid><description>Can hiring a gigolo really ease loneliness? 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I explain what sets the price and what you pay with me.</description><pubDate>Sun, 01 Sep 2024 00:00:00 GMT</pubDate></item><item><title>Consensual Non-Consent in BDSM: what CNC means</title><link>https://gigolo-victor.com/en/blog/bdsm/dominance/consensual-non-consent-in-bdsm/</link><guid>https://gigolo-victor.com/en/blog/bdsm/dominance/consensual-non-consent-in-bdsm/</guid><description>What is consensual non-consent in BDSM? I explain how CNC works, where the limits sit, and what makes it so powerful.</description><pubDate>Sat, 01 Jun 2024 00:00:00 GMT</pubDate></item><item><title>A Sexual Bucket List for Women: Exciting Places to Explore Desire</title><link>https://gigolo-victor.com/en/blog/sex/female-sexual-fantasies/sexual-bucket-list/</link><guid>https://gigolo-victor.com/en/blog/sex/female-sexual-fantasies/sexual-bucket-list/</guid><description>A sexual bucket list for women: the most exciting places to explore your desires, from a quiet beach at night to a luxury penthouse.</description><pubDate>Sun, 12 May 2024 00:00:00 GMT</pubDate></item></channel></rss>