Published in De Telegraaf
Despite her marriage, Emma visits a gigolo every month: “I can recommend it to any woman”
In the section “Between the sheets” women tell about their sex lives. This story comes from Emma (51). She is happily married and the mother of two adolescents. With her husband Ben she barely has a sex life, Ben has a very low libido. They have found a special solution for this. Emma visits a gigolo once a month.
“I’ve never really been a beast in bed. Straightforward, that was his style. And preferably only on Sunday morning. When I heard my friends about their men who didn’t stop, I sometimes wondered what was going on with Ben.
I now know. Ben has a low libido. He is a great guy, but in bed I should not expect too much from him. He is far from horny. ”
Empty
“We talked about an open relationship, but we both find that scary. What if we fall in love with the other person? And probably I would go hunting alone, I don’t have to. We don’t want to put our beautiful family at stake.
But it broke me down a few years ago that things are going so well with us. Ben came up with the idea of going to a gigolo once a month. I had to think about that for a while. Pay for sex? How flat do you want it? ”
Nothing but yourself
“I went into it online and found out that gigolos have many different types of customers. From wealthy business women to kindergarten teachers. And that during such a date it’s really all about you. Just about nothing but thinking about yourself. It was so ordinary Not… Why wouldn’t I do it? The idea started to like me more and more. ”
lie down and enjoy
“In the meantime, I have been going to a hotel for more than two years every month where I let myself be pulled apart by a male prostitute. I can recommend it to any woman, unless you have a guy at home who knows how to do it.
I have three that I order, I am very satisfied with that. Everyone has their own qualities. One is tender, the other very animal. It costs something, but then you also have something. I don’t have the feeling that I have to give something back; It is really lying and enjoying. ”
Sexy time
“Ben thinks it’s fine. He doesn’t want to know too much about it, but I don’t detect jealousy with him. It made me a happier person, because I felt like having sex. I would prefer to schedule a date every week, but that is really going to be in the papers.
I tell the children that I have a business appointment. They have no idea that their mother is rolling in a hotel with a man unknown to them. ”
Copped
“Since I do it with gigolos, it has been between me and I am completely packed in bed. We are barely doing it and I can live with that.
Coincidentally, we did it again last Sunday and then I thought: “This is really very simple sex if you compare it to what my three favorite gigolos offer me.” I know that he would really prefer to see it differently. “