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SheSpot.nl – Erotica for her
“Female desires are not a taboo, but a source of strength”.
What happens when women no longer hide their desires but consciously choose them? For SHESPOT we spoke with professional gigolo Victor (pseudonym), a professional gigolo with a background as a psychotherapist. About listening without judgment, sexual autonomy, and why intimacy is much more than sex.
BrabantsMeisje.nl – Sexuality – Open minded relationships
“How I ended up in the world of BDSM and this work”
A personal story about curiosity, wonder, and discovering a calling.
Sometimes someone asks me: “How did you get into this?” And then I have to smile for a moment. Because the answer starts in a place I never expected myself.
andc.tv : Maud met a gigolo: ‘Immediately I thought: I want more’
Maud has been single for a year and a half when her need for intimacy starts to grow again. But the dating stories she hears around her give her goosebumps. Moreover, she has a lot of insecurities and sexual traumas from her last relationship, which makes meeting someone spontaneously complicated. Then she comes up with an idea: a gigolo: Victor
In an openhearted interview with AndC magazine, Maud shares how, due to insecurities and sexual traumas from her previous relationship, spontaneous dating feels difficult. That’s why she decides to hire a gigolo. In the article, Maud describes her detailed search for the best gigolo, and how this led her to Victor. This decision helped her reconnect with her own desires and needs.
andc.tv : Married to a gigolo
#1 I have wanted to experiment with BDSM for years
Anna is married to Victor, who has a very unique side job: he works as a gigolo. For &C, she will be writing columns over the coming weeks about their unconventional love life. And the way they met? That was just as special: through a BDSM advertisement. ‘I had hidden my desire, until now.’
#2 Victor used whips and checked how every strike landed
Anna is married to Victor, who has a very unique side job: he works as a gigolo. The two met through a BDSM advertisement, and their first date was quite exciting right away.
#3 I wish every woman an intimate date with my husband
Anna never dared to hope she would find her match in Victor, a man who effortlessly touches her deepest desires. What she never expected? That she would ultimately be the one encouraging her great love to please women as a gigolo alongside his job.
#4 I don’t recognize this feeling, I’ve never had it before
Anna and Victor share a secret: Victor works as a gigolo. Anna doesn’t mind sharing her husband with other women until one day he meets with Bianca.
#5 You always have that sparkle in your eyes
Anna has been feeling jealous regarding Victor’s date with Bianca for a while. After their second meeting, she talks to him about it. And she finds it so nerve-wracking…
#6 When we play together, it often involves whips and tying up
Even now that Anna and Victor are married, they maintain an exciting relationship. ‘The game has become rougher over the years and I actually really enjoy that.’
vriendin.nl
Mariska regularly has an appointment with a gigolo
Mariska (43) was abused in her youth. Because of this, as an adult woman she has never been able to enjoy sex. Thanks to the appointments with a gigolo, she can enjoy intimacy and her own body for the first time in her life.
girls-things.nl
Hi! Hiring a gigolo? You don’t just do that without reason, right? Are you ashamed of it? Is it even allowed? In this article, more about the stigma hiring a gigolo. Because in 2025 this should no longer be strange, thrilling, or weird, right? Women are equal to men. And when men hire an escort, no one bats an eye. But the other way around? Are women not allowed to have an exciting evening…?!
An article you might not expect so quickly on my blog. Victor came by via my email. A gigolo who wanted to tell me more about his world and also break the stigma. Because women too deserve an exciting evening and to hire someone for that (or simply put: pay for a sexual experience).
bdsmforyou.nl
Commercial Mistresses are abundant. You’ll find them in many forms: from Ladies to Goddesses, from gentle to ruthless, from beginners to extremely experienced. They are visible, approachable, and – perhaps most importantly – increasingly becoming socially normal. But what about the other side of the spectrum? Like, for example, a Professional BDSM Gigolo?
What if you, as a woman, feel submissive desires? What if you would like to lie at the feet of a man, maybe even for the first time? Where can you find a safe entry point? And more importantly: where can you find a good Dominant man? Professional BDSM gigolos and/or Pro Doms are rare. And that is at least remarkable. Because the need… it is there. I am convinced of that.
Why do women hardly ever hire a Dominant Gigolo? Why is the supply so limited, while the fantasies are very much alive?
Podcast bdsmforyou.nl
In this episode, I talk with BDSM gigolo Victor. Why is there actually such a taboo on hiring a gigolo?
Telegraaf
Despite her marriage, Emma visits a gigolo every month: ‘I can recommend it to every woman’
In the section ‘Between the Sheets’ women share stories about their sex lives. This story is from Emma (51). She is happily married and a mother of two teenagers. She barely has a sex life with her husband Ben, who has a very low libido. They have found a special solution for this. Once a month, Emma visits a gigolo.