GENERAL TERMS AND CONDITIONS – GIGOLO & MALE ESCORT SERVICES AMSTERDAM
Version: 1.5 – February 2025
These General Terms and Conditions apply to the hiring and booking of a gigolo, male escort, and BDSM gigolo services via gigolo-victor.com, based in Amsterdam and operating throughout the Netherlands and Europe.
Article 1 – Definitions
1.1 Service Provider: the professional gigolo and male escort who provides the Services directly to Clients, also operating as a BDSM gigolo with over 25 years of experience in the BDSM community.
1.2 Client: natural persons aged 21 or older, or legal entities, who wish to hire a gigolo or book a male escort, and intend to enter into or have entered into a Booking Agreement with the Service Provider.
1.3 New Client: a Client who has not previously used the Services, or whose last Booking took place more than 13 months ago.
1.4 Website: the website gigolo-victor.com where the gigolo and male escort services, including BDSM gigolo services in Amsterdam and surrounding areas, are offered.
1.5 Services: all gigolo and male escort services offered and performed by the Service Provider, including but not limited to:
Escort & Companionship:
a) Boyfriend Experience (BFE) – intimate companionship experience with loving attention;
b) Dinner Dates – culinary companionship and company;
c) Coffee Dates – informal introductory meetings;
d) Event Accompaniment – escorting to parties, galas, and social events;
e) Travel Companionship – accompaniment during vacations and business trips.
BDSM & Kink Services:
f) BDSM Introduction for Beginners – safe introduction to BDSM;
g) Advanced BDSM Sessions – for experienced clients;
h) Breathplay – breath control under strict safety protocols;
i) CNC (Consensual Non-Consent) – thoroughly pre-discussed consensual power exchange;
j) Dominance and Submission – professional D/s dynamics;
k) Bondage and Discipline – tying and discipline;
l) Sensory Experiences – blindfold and sensory sessions.
Special Experiences:
m) Deflowering – careful guidance during first sexual experiences;
n) Trauma Recovery – therapeutic support in regaining intimacy;
o) Couple Experience – services for couples wishing to explore together;
p) Swinger and Couple Club Visits – accompaniment to lifestyle events;
q) BDSM Party Escort – accompaniment to BDSM parties and munches;
r) Cuddle Therapy – non-sexual physical closeness and comfort;
s) Mystery Meetings – spontaneous and roleplay-based experiences.
1.6 Hire / Book a Gigolo: entering into a Booking Agreement for the Services of the Provider, whereby the Client hires a gigolo for an agreed duration and specific services.
1.7 Request: any request from a Client to the Service Provider, made via the Website, email, phone, WhatsApp, or any other communication method, in which the Client intends to hire a gigolo or book a male escort.
1.8 Booking: an agreement between the Client and the Service Provider for gigolo or male escort services, established after Confirmation of a Request.
1.9 Confirmation: the written confirmation from the Service Provider to the Client outlining the arrangements regarding a Booking, including at least the location, time, duration, and the Booking amount.
1.10 Booking Amount: the total cost for the gigolo and male escort services, including travel expenses, service charges, and any surcharges.
1.11 Booking Duration: the length of the Booking as agreed in the Confirmation.
1.12 Deposit: an advance payment to confirm the Booking, mandatory for New Clients who want to hire a gigolo.
1.13 International Booking: all Bookings for gigolo or male escort services outside the Netherlands, or Bookings involving a travel distance of more than 250 kilometers.
1.14 Guaranteed Booking: a Booking for which the Client is not entitled to free cancellation.
1.15 Europe: all EU member states, as well as Switzerland, the United Kingdom, and Norway.
1.16 Parties: Service Provider and Client collectively.
1.17 Scope of Work: The Service Provider is based in Amsterdam and offers gigolo and male escort services throughout the Netherlands, with a particular focus on Amsterdam, Rotterdam, The Hague, Utrecht, and surrounding areas, as well as international bookings within Europe.
Article 2 – Applicability
2.1 These General Terms and Conditions apply to all offers made by the Service Provider, all bookings, and all related legal relationships.
2.2 By submitting a Request or placing a Booking, the Client accepts these General Terms and Conditions, regardless of whether the Client has read them in full.
2.3 Deviations from these General Terms and Conditions are only valid if and to the extent that they have been expressly and in writing approved by the Service Provider.
2.4 The applicability of any general terms and conditions of the Client is explicitly excluded.
2.5 The Service Provider is at all times entitled to unilaterally change the content of these General Terms and Conditions. The amended conditions come into effect upon publication on the Website.
2.6 If one or more provisions of these General Terms and Conditions are null or void or annulled, the other provisions remain fully in force. In that case, the parties will consult to agree on replacement provisions, taking the purpose and intent of the original provision into account as much as possible.
2.7 The Client who has already entered into a Booking with the Service Provider is deemed to have tacitly agreed to the applicability of these General Terms and Conditions to later and/or additional Bookings.
2.8 These General Terms and Conditions are drafted in the Dutch language. Only the Dutch version is legally binding. Any translations into other languages are for informational purposes only and have no legal force. In case of discrepancies between the Dutch version and a translation, the Dutch text shall always prevail.
Article 3 – Legality
3.1 The Service Provider performs its activities in accordance with the applicable laws and regulations.
3.2 The Service Provider guarantees respectful and professional treatment of Clients.
Article 4 – Formation of the Booking
4.1 All offers made by the Service Provider are non-binding, unless explicitly stated otherwise in the offer.
4.2 A Booking is only concluded at the moment the Service Provider expressly accepts the Request by means of a Confirmation.
4.3 The Confirmation is assumed to be accurate and complete. The Confirmation replaces and supersedes all previous proposals, correspondence, agreements, or other communications.
4.4 For New Clients, the Confirmation will only be issued after the Deposit has been paid.
4.5 The Service Provider reserves the right to refuse a Request without providing reasons.
4.6 The Client has no right to cancel the agreement at a distance under article 6:230p of the Dutch Civil Code, as the Services are considered leisure activities for which a specific time has been agreed upon.
Article 5 – Execution of the Booking
5.1 The Service Provider strives to tailor the Services optimally to the Client’s wishes in order to provide the best possible experience.
5.2 The Booking begins at the time specified in the Confirmation.
5.3 The minimum Booking duration is 2 hours. Additional minimum requirements may apply depending on travel distance.
5.4 Bookings only take place in a hygienic and safe environment, which is:
a) a private residence; or
b) a hotel or accommodation with a minimum four-star rating.
5.5 The location must be exclusively available to the Client and the Service Provider during the Booking and must have a bedroom, seating area, bathroom, and toilet.
5.6 The Client is responsible for booking and providing a suitable location that meets the requirements of articles 5.4 and 5.5. All costs related to the location are to be borne by the Client.
5.7 The Service Provider’s home location is not available for Bookings.
5.8 If, in the judgment of the Service Provider, the hygiene of the location is not adequate, the Booking will be immediately terminated without any right to a refund.
Article 6 – Obligations of the Client
Identification and Verification
6.1 The Client is required to provide accurate and complete information regarding their identity and the Booking.
6.2 New Clients must undergo a verification procedure, including providing a Deposit, identification documents, and/or location confirmation.
Age and Behavior
6.3 The Client must be at least 21 years old. The Service Provider has the right to request identification.
6.4 The Client must refrain from:
a) possession or use of drugs;
b) offering drugs to the Service Provider;
c) excessive alcohol consumption negatively affecting the course of the Booking.
Respectful Treatment
6.5 The Client shall always treat the Service Provider with respect and in accordance with these General Terms and Conditions.
6.6 The Client is not allowed to coerce the Service Provider into actions against the Service Provider’s will, the Booking, or the law.
6.7 The Service Provider acts at all times according to their own professional judgment and discretion.
Health and Safe Sex
6.8 The Client is obliged to report medical conditions that may endanger the health of the Service Provider.
6.9 The Client must be free of sexually transmitted diseases, contagious skin conditions, and viral infections.
6.10 All sexual acts take place exclusively in accordance with the Service Provider’s Safe Sex policy. The Client is strictly prohibited from persuading the Service Provider to forgo condom use.
6.11 If there is insistence on unsafe sex, the Booking will be terminated immediately without the right to a refund.
Hygiene and Facilities
6.12 The Client must ensure a high level of personal hygiene.
6.13 For bookings of longer duration, the Client is required to:
a) provide at least 3 meals per day (for bookings of 12 hours or more);
b) allow at least 6 hours of sleep during overnight stays;
c) grant at least 2 hours of private time per day for bookings longer than 24 hours.
Privacy and Contact
6.14 The Client respects the privacy of the Service Provider and refrains from:
a) making photo, audio, or video recordings;
b) attempts to obtain personal information of the Service Provider;
c) inspecting the belongings of the Service Provider;
Prohibited Actions
6.15 The Client refrains from:
a) deception, intimidation, threats, or fraud;
b) actions that endanger the safety or reputation of the Service Provider;
c) disclosing confidential information about the Service Provider;
d) unlawful actions against the Service Provider or third parties.
BDSM, Breathplay and CNC Services
6.16 When booking BDSM gigolo services, breathplay, CNC (Consensual Non-Consent), or other kink-related experiences, the following additional conditions apply:
a) prior to the Booking, a comprehensive intake conversation takes place in which boundaries, wishes, safewords, and medical specifics are discussed;
b) the Client is required to provide all relevant medical information, including but not limited to cardiovascular diseases, respiratory problems, epilepsy, or psychological disorders;
c) a safeword or stop signal is agreed upon in advance and must be respected at all times by both Parties;
d) the Service Provider reserves the right to refuse breathplay, CNC, or other risky activities if, in their professional judgment, safety cannot be sufficiently guaranteed;
e) the Client acknowledges that BDSM activities inherently carry risks and releases the Service Provider from liability for damage that occurs despite compliance with the agreed safety protocols;
f) aftercare is an integral part of BDSM gigolo sessions and is provided by the Service Provider according to professional discretion.
6.17 The Client is strictly prohibited from exceeding the agreed scenario or ignoring the safeword during CNC sessions. Violations will lead to immediate termination of the Booking without entitlement to a refund and can be considered a criminal offense.
Article 7 – Long Bookings
7.1 Bookings with a duration of 24 hours or more are considered Long Bookings.
7.2 The following conditions apply to Long Bookings:
a) a minimum of 6 hours of sleep during nighttime hours (22:00 – 07:00);
b) breakfast, lunch, and dinner are at the expense of the Client;
c) 2 hours of private time per 24-hour period.
Article 8 – International Bookings
8.1 An International Booking is a Booking that takes place outside the Netherlands.
8.2 International Bookings within Europe require a minimum Booking duration of 36 hours including travel time.
Travel Costs and Transportation
8.3 All costs for transportation, visas, accommodation, and meals are the responsibility of the Client.
8.4 For travel within the Netherlands, a kilometer allowance applies.
8.5 For air travel, the following provisions apply:
a) up to 8 hours flight time: Economy Class;
b) from 8 hours flight time: Business Class or First Class;
c) flights are preferably booked without stopovers.
8.6 The trip may not start before 06:00 unless necessary.
Deposit and Payment
8.7 For International Bookings, a deposit of at least 50% of the Booking amount plus 100% of external costs is required.
8.8 The remaining balance must be paid at least 48 hours before the start of the Booking.
Delays and Costs
8.9 Unforeseen costs incurred during the trip outside the fault of the Service Provider are the responsibility of the Client.
8.10 If the Service Provider misses the return flight due to (in)direct fault of the Client, the additional time will be charged to the Client at the regular rate.
Article 9 – Cancellation and Changes by Service Provider
9.1 The Service Provider reserves the right to cancel or modify a Booking if:
a) The Service Provider cannot be present at the requested location and/or time;
b) The requested location is not suitable or available;
c) In the opinion of the Service Provider, safety cannot be guaranteed;
d) The Client does not (timely) comply with the agreed conditions;
e) Circumstances arise that make fulfillment of the Booking unreasonably burdensome.
9.2 In case of cancellation or change, the Service Provider will inform the Client as soon as possible.
9.3 If the Booking can only take place under changed circumstances, the Client has the right to cancel the Booking free of charge, except for already incurred external costs.
9.4 In case of cancellation by the Service Provider for reasons as mentioned in paragraph 1 sub a to e, the Service Provider is not liable for any direct or indirect damage or expenses of the Client.
Delay
9.5 If the Service Provider arrives later than agreed, the Booking will be extended free of charge by the duration of the delay.
9.6 In case of a delay of more than 60 minutes (not caused by the Client), the Client has the right to cancel the Booking free of charge, provided the Booking was confirmed at least 5 hours in advance.
Article 10 – Cancellation and Changes by the Client
General
10.1 Cancellation or changes must be made as soon as possible via email or WhatsApp.
10.2 Cancellation or modification is only valid after confirmation by the Service Provider.
Cancellation Fees for Domestic Bookings
10.3 In case of cancellation by the Client, the following cancellation fees apply:
a) up to 24 hours before the start: free of charge (first time); 20% of the Booking Amount for repeated cancellations;
b) between 24 and 4 hours before the start: 25% of the Booking Amount;
c) between 4 hours before the start and start: 50% of the Booking Amount;
d) after start or in case of no-show: 100% of the Booking Amount.
Cancellation Fees for International Bookings within Europe
10.4 In case of cancellation of an International Booking, the following cancellation fees apply:
a) up to 48 hours before departure: free of charge;
b) between 48 and 24 hours before departure: 20% of the Booking Amount;
c) between 24 hours before departure and departure: 50% of the Booking Amount;
d) after departure until the start of the Booking: 50% of the Booking Amount plus travel time at regular rate (minimum 3 hours);
e) after start: 100% of the Booking Amount.
Costs Already Incurred
10.5 Costs already incurred (such as flight tickets, visas, hotel reservations) or costs that must be incurred due to the cancellation will always be charged to the Client, regardless of the time of cancellation.
10.6 External costs are not eligible for refund.
Early Termination
10.7 In case of early termination of the Booking by the Client, the full Booking Amount remains payable.
Article 11 – Guarantees
Effort Obligation
11.1 The Service Provider has an obligation of effort regarding the Booking. The Service Provider makes every effort to perform the Services to the best of their ability.
11.2 If the Services do not meet the Client’s expectations, this does not entitle the Client to cancellation or modification, unless otherwise specified in these General Terms and Conditions.
11.3 The Service Provider guarantees that the information on the Website provides a realistic representation of the Services offered.
Article 12 – Rates and Prices
12.1 All rates are listed on the Website and are expressed in euros.
12.2 The rates stated in the Confirmation apply exclusively to the Services in accordance with the agreed specifications.
12.3 Discounts apply only if agreed upon in writing in advance and confirmed in the Confirmation.
12.4 The Service Provider is entitled to increase the agreed price in case of:
a) an increase in cost factors;
b) additional requests from the Client that lead to extra work.
12.5 Additional costs for extra work or special requests will be charged at an hourly rate, increased with a surcharge outside regular opening hours.
Article 13 – Payments
Payment term
13.1 All payments must be made prior to the Booking, or at the latest immediately upon the start of the Booking, unless agreed otherwise in writing.
13.2 For New Clients, a mandatory Deposit of at least 30% of the Booking amount applies, to be paid by bank transfer.
Payment methods
13.3 Service provider accepts the following payment methods:
a) cash payment in euros at the start of the Booking.
13.4 For cash payments, banknotes of €200 and €500 are not accepted, unless unavoidable, in which case a surcharge of 10% (minimum €100) will be charged.
13.5 For payment in foreign currency (USD/GBP), the daily exchange rate plus bank/exchange fees and a 5% service charge applies.
Refund
13.6 Amounts eligible for refund will generally be credited to the client account balance, valid for 3 years.
13.7 Refunds will be processed within 10 working days after the original Booking date.
Default
13.8 The Client is in default without further notice if payment is not made on time.
13.9 The Client owes a late payment interest of 3% per month on the outstanding amount.
13.10 All judicial and extrajudicial collection costs are borne by the Client.
Article 14 – Discretion and Confidentiality
Obligations of the Client
14.1 The Client is obligated to maintain absolute confidentiality regarding the Service Provider and all aspects of the Services.
Obligations of Service Provider
14.2 The Service Provider treats all Client information confidentially and will use it solely for the execution of the Services.
14.3 Client information is never shared with third parties, unless:
a) a legal provision requires the Service Provider to do so;
b) the Client has provided false identity information;
c) the Client has acted in violation of these General Terms and Conditions, in which case relevant information may be shared with industry organizations as a warning.
Article 15 – Intellectual Property
15.1 All intellectual property rights on the Website, its content, marketing and sales materials, trade names, logos, images, and other intellectual products of the Service Provider exclusively belong to the Service Provider.
15.2 The content of the Website is intended solely for private, personal, and non-commercial use.
15.3 The Client is not permitted without prior written consent from the Service Provider to:
a) copy, download, reproduce, modify, or distribute the content of the Website;
b) duplicate or publish image material;
c) exploit the methods or other intellectual products of the Service Provider.
15.4 Violation of this article grants the Service Provider the right to impose a penalty in accordance with article 16.
Article 16 – Penalty Clause
16.1 In case of violation of the provisions in these General Terms and Conditions, the Client shall incur an immediately payable penalty without prior notice of default being required.
16.2 The penalties are structured as follows:
Category A (such as repeated violation of behavioral rules):
- € 2,500 per violation;
- € 500 per day that the violation continues (maximum 30 days).
Category B (such as breach of confidentiality, intellectual property):
- € 10,000 per violation;
- € 1,000 per day that the violation continues (maximum 30 days).
Category C (such as serious violations, threats, intimidation):
- € 25,000 per violation;
- € 2,000 per day that the violation continues (maximum 30 days).
16.3 The penalty does not affect the Service Provider’s right to demand compliance and/or additional compensation for damages.
16.4 The penalty is not subject to reduction, cannot be offset, and is subject to statutory interest.
16.5 All judicial and extrajudicial costs for collection are at the expense of the Client.
Article 17 – Liability
Limitation of Liability
17.1 The Service Provider is not liable for damages unless there is intent or deliberate recklessness on the part of the Service Provider.
17.2 Any liability of the Service Provider is always limited to direct damages. The Service Provider is never liable for indirect damages, consequential damages, lost profits, missed savings, reputational damage, or immaterial damages.
17.3 Furthermore, the Service Provider’s liability is limited to a maximum of 100% of the Booking Amount.
Exclusion of Liability
17.4 Service provider is not liable for:
a) defects of any kind;
b) disappointing experiences of the Client;
c) deviations from the information provided on the Website;
d) damage resulting from actions of the Client that violate these General Terms and Conditions.
Indemnification
17.5 The Client indemnifies the Service Provider against all claims from third parties related to damages suffered by the Client for which the Service Provider is not liable, and reimburses all costs the Service Provider incurs in this regard.
Website
17.6 The Website has been compiled with great care. The Service Provider is not liable for any inaccuracies, incompleteness, or technical malfunctions.
Article 18 – Force Majeure
18.1 In the event of force majeure on the part of the Service Provider, the obligations under the Booking are suspended for the duration of the force majeure situation.
18.2 The Service Provider proposes an alternative date or change. If performance is permanently impossible, both Parties have the right to dissolve the Booking.
18.3 Upon dissolution due to force majeure, the Client owes the Booking amount proportional to the Services already rendered, plus travel costs, external expenses, and surcharges.
18.4 The Client may not cancel a Booking free of charge on the grounds of force majeure on their part; the cancellation policy of article 10 remains applicable.
Article 19 – Applicable Law and Disputes
19.1 All Requests, Bookings, and these General Terms and Conditions are exclusively governed by Dutch law.
19.2 Any disputes shall be exclusively submitted to the competent court in the district where the Service Provider is established.
19.3 Before submitting a dispute to the court, the Parties shall consult to reach an amicable solution.
Article 20 – Changes to the Privacy Policy
20.1 The Service Provider reserves the right to amend this Privacy Policy. Changes will be published on the Website.
20.2 Continued use of the Website or Services after publication of changes constitutes acceptance of the amended Privacy Policy.
Article 21 – Contact
For questions about these General Terms and Conditions or the Privacy Policy, you can contact the Service Provider via the contact details on the Website.