https://gigolo-victor.com/en/blogIntimacyenhttps://gigolo-victor.com/en/blog/sex/anal-play-from-first-time-to-plug/https://gigolo-victor.com/en/blog/sex/anal-play-from-first-time-to-plug/How anal play works, why lube is not optional, which toys are safe, and why a flared base is the one rule that really matters.Wed, 12 Aug 2026 00:00:00 GMThttps://gigolo-victor.com/en/blog/connection/emotional-loneliness/https://gigolo-victor.com/en/blog/connection/emotional-loneliness/Emotional loneliness is feeling unseen with a partner beside you. What it is, why it is so hard to name, and what helps.Fri, 07 Aug 2026 00:00:00 GMThttps://gigolo-victor.com/en/blog/connection/widows-fire/https://gigolo-victor.com/en/blog/connection/widows-fire/Widow's fire is the sudden desire for touch soon after a partner dies. Where it comes from, why it is normal, and what you can do with it.Fri, 07 Aug 2026 00:00:00 GMThttps://gigolo-victor.com/en/blog/relations/body-insecurity-after-divorce/https://gigolo-victor.com/en/blog/relations/body-insecurity-after-divorce/After a divorce your body can suddenly feel wrong. Where the insecurity comes from, why losing weight rarely helps, and what actually does.Fri, 07 Aug 2026 00:00:00 GMThttps://gigolo-victor.com/en/blog/relations/is-booking-a-gigolo-cheating/https://gigolo-victor.com/en/blog/relations/is-booking-a-gigolo-cheating/Whether it's cheating depends on whether your partner knows and agrees. Why half-knowing isn't real consent, and how to have the talk.Fri, 07 Aug 2026 00:00:00 GMThttps://gigolo-victor.com/en/blog/sex/tantra-vs-erotic-massage/https://gigolo-victor.com/en/blog/sex/tantra-vs-erotic-massage/The difference is in the goal, not the touch. Why that matters in practice, and the questions to ask so you know what you are buying.Fri, 07 Aug 2026 00:00:00 GMThttps://gigolo-victor.com/en/blog/sex/what-is-a-yoni-massage/https://gigolo-victor.com/en/blog/sex/what-is-a-yoni-massage/A yoni massage is a tantric massage aimed at relaxation, not at climax. What the word means and how such a session unfolds.Fri, 07 Aug 2026 00:00:00 GMThttps://gigolo-victor.com/en/blog/connection/depth/why-i-dont-do-quickies/https://gigolo-victor.com/en/blog/connection/depth/why-i-dont-do-quickies/Why I don't offer quickies as a gigolo, what rushing does to intimacy, and why a meeting with me lasts at least two hours.Wed, 22 Jul 2026 00:00:00 GMThttps://gigolo-victor.com/en/blog/skinhunger/professional-cuddling/https://gigolo-victor.com/en/blog/skinhunger/professional-cuddling/Professional cuddling is cuddling by appointment, clothes on and nothing sexual about it. Here is how it works, and who it is for.Fri, 03 Jul 2026 00:00:00 GMThttps://gigolo-victor.com/en/blog/relations/married-emma-visits-a-gigolo-monthly/https://gigolo-victor.com/en/blog/relations/married-emma-visits-a-gigolo-monthly/Emma (51) is happily married but misses sex due to her husband's low libido. Every month she visits a gigolo, and recommends it to any woman.Sat, 21 Feb 2026 00:00:00 GMThttps://gigolo-victor.com/en/blog/relations/married-to-a-gigolo-1-the-introduction/https://gigolo-victor.com/en/blog/relations/married-to-a-gigolo-1-the-introduction/Anna, a newly divorced mum of two, places her first BDSM ad and meets gigolo Victor. Part 1 of her true story.Sun, 25 Jan 2026 00:00:00 GMThttps://gigolo-victor.com/en/blog/relations/married-to-a-gigolo-3-victors-new-side-job/https://gigolo-victor.com/en/blog/relations/married-to-a-gigolo-3-victors-new-side-job/Anna encourages her partner Victor to work as a gigolo on the side. Part 3 of their story about his surprising new side job.Sun, 25 Jan 2026 00:00:00 GMThttps://gigolo-victor.com/en/blog/relations/married-to-a-gigolo-4-hard-to-lie-in-bed-alone/https://gigolo-victor.com/en/blog/relations/married-to-a-gigolo-4-hard-to-lie-in-bed-alone/Jealous of your partner's client? Anna feels it for the first time when Victor meets the experienced Bianca. Part 4 of her story.Sun, 25 Jan 2026 00:00:00 GMThttps://gigolo-victor.com/en/blog/relations/married-to-a-gigolo-5-cant-deny-my-jealousy/https://gigolo-victor.com/en/blog/relations/married-to-a-gigolo-5-cant-deny-my-jealousy/Talking to your partner about jealousy feels nerve-wracking. Anna opens up to Victor, and his reassurance brings the calm back. Part 5 of her story.Sun, 25 Jan 2026 00:00:00 GMThttps://gigolo-victor.com/en/blog/relations/mariska-regularly-meets-a-gigolo/https://gigolo-victor.com/en/blog/relations/mariska-regularly-meets-a-gigolo/Abused as a child, Mariska (43) never enjoyed sex. Seeing a gigolo, she finally finds intimacy and confidence.Mon, 19 Jan 2026 00:00:00 GMThttps://gigolo-victor.com/en/blog/relations/maud-met-a-gigolo-i-wanted-more/https://gigolo-victor.com/en/blog/relations/maud-met-a-gigolo-i-wanted-more/A gigolo after a narcissistic relationship? Maud wanted safe intimacy and got her confidence and her desire for sex back through Victor.Sat, 29 Nov 2025 00:00:00 GMThttps://gigolo-victor.com/en/blog/mr-perfect/https://gigolo-victor.com/en/blog/mr-perfect/Does the perfect man exist? I don't chase perfection. I read what you need that evening and become the companion who fits it. Here's how.Sat, 11 Oct 2025 00:00:00 GMThttps://gigolo-victor.com/en/blog/when-does-a-meeting-feel-safe/https://gigolo-victor.com/en/blog/when-does-a-meeting-feel-safe/Safety starts long before the date: with an honest talk, room to land, and limits that count. That is how I work as a gigolo in Amsterdam.Tue, 12 Aug 2025 00:00:00 GMThttps://gigolo-victor.com/en/blog/connection/communication/communicating-before-a-date/https://gigolo-victor.com/en/blog/connection/communication/communicating-before-a-date/Communicating before a date builds trust and real intimacy. Why I always make contact, and flirt a little, long before we ever meet.Tue, 15 Jul 2025 00:00:00 GMThttps://gigolo-victor.com/en/blog/media/why-women-hire-a-gigolo/https://gigolo-victor.com/en/blog/media/why-women-hire-a-gigolo/A male escort for women on desire, intimacy versus sex, and consent. Victor on why women hire a gigolo and listening without judgment.Wed, 18 Jun 2025 00:00:00 GMThttps://gigolo-victor.com/en/blog/skinhunger/what-is-skin-hunger/https://gigolo-victor.com/en/blog/skinhunger/what-is-skin-hunger/Recognize the symptoms of skin hunger: the causes, the effects, and how to soften a lack of touch and the longing behind it.Wed, 30 Apr 2025 00:00:00 GMThttps://gigolo-victor.com/en/blog/high-class-gigolo/https://gigolo-victor.com/en/blog/high-class-gigolo/What a high class gigolo really offers women who want luxury and quiet seduction, set entirely at your pace and kept between the two of us.Mon, 28 Apr 2025 00:00:00 GMThttps://gigolo-victor.com/en/blog/relations/why-women-cheat/https://gigolo-victor.com/en/blog/relations/why-women-cheat/The main reasons why women cheat, from emotional neglect to a longing for adventure, and the alternatives worth considering.Mon, 14 Apr 2025 00:00:00 GMThttps://gigolo-victor.com/en/blog/bdsm/bondage/mouth-gags-in-bdsm/https://gigolo-victor.com/en/blog/bdsm/bondage/mouth-gags-in-bdsm/Mouth gags in BDSM explained: how a ball gag sharpens your senses and deepens surrender, with safety and communication first.Mon, 16 Dec 2024 00:00:00 GMThttps://gigolo-victor.com/en/blog/sex/erotic-stories/the-washing-machine/https://gigolo-victor.com/en/blog/sex/erotic-stories/the-washing-machine/A heated erotic tale of unexpected desire in the laundry room, where passion and intimacy flare up in the most ordinary of places.Sat, 14 Dec 2024 00:00:00 GMThttps://gigolo-victor.com/en/blog/bdsm/bondage/confinement-in-bdsm/https://gigolo-victor.com/en/blog/bdsm/bondage/confinement-in-bdsm/Confinement in BDSM is physical restriction, vulnerability, and deep surrender, with full care for safety, a safeword, RACK, and loving aftercare.Sat, 07 Dec 2024 00:00:00 GMThttps://gigolo-victor.com/en/blog/connection/communication/sharing-fantasies-with-your-partner/https://gigolo-victor.com/en/blog/connection/communication/sharing-fantasies-with-your-partner/Sharing fantasies with your partner takes courage, and it builds trust and intimacy. Victor explains how to do it safely and thrillingly.Mon, 02 Dec 2024 00:00:00 GMThttps://gigolo-victor.com/en/blog/bdsm/bondage/spreader-bar-in-bdsm/https://gigolo-victor.com/en/blog/bdsm/bondage/spreader-bar-in-bdsm/Spreader bar BDSM: how restricted movement opens the way to deep surrender, explored safely, with trust and no rush, at your own pace.Sun, 01 Dec 2024 00:00:00 GMThttps://gigolo-victor.com/en/blog/sex/erotic-stories/the-cinema/https://gigolo-victor.com/en/blog/sex/erotic-stories/the-cinema/Erotic story: on a rainy evening in a private cinema, a woman shares an intimate, passionate encounter with her companion.Mon, 18 Nov 2024 00:00:00 GMThttps://gigolo-victor.com/en/blog/bdsm/bondage/metal-cuffs-and-chains/https://gigolo-victor.com/en/blog/bdsm/bondage/metal-cuffs-and-chains/Metal cuffs and chains in BDSM: what cold steel does for control and surrender, and why safety, consent, and aftercare come first.Mon, 11 Nov 2024 00:00:00 GMThttps://gigolo-victor.com/en/blog/companionship/dinner-date/the-perfect-dinner-date/https://gigolo-victor.com/en/blog/companionship/dinner-date/the-perfect-dinner-date/You plan the perfect dinner date with attention, not a checklist. Victor's tips for location, mood, and an evening that really lands.Sun, 10 Nov 2024 00:00:00 GMThttps://gigolo-victor.com/en/blog/connection/deepening-intimacy-professional-gigolo/https://gigolo-victor.com/en/blog/connection/deepening-intimacy-professional-gigolo/Deepening intimacy is no trick. Victor, a professional gigolo in Amsterdam, on how real closeness and connection actually grow.Sun, 10 Nov 2024 00:00:00 GMThttps://gigolo-victor.com/en/blog/bdsm/whips/pleasure-of-a-rubber-whip/https://gigolo-victor.com/en/blog/bdsm/whips/pleasure-of-a-rubber-whip/What makes a rubber whip exciting in BDSM, from sensation and trust to consent, and how it deepens intimacy between two people.Sat, 09 Nov 2024 00:00:00 GMThttps://gigolo-victor.com/en/blog/connection/spirituality/spiritual-gigolo-experience-depth-wisdom/https://gigolo-victor.com/en/blog/connection/spirituality/spiritual-gigolo-experience-depth-wisdom/A spiritual gigolo experience for women seeking depth, mindfulness and real connection, without rush or judgment.Sun, 03 Nov 2024 00:00:00 GMThttps://gigolo-victor.com/en/blog/relations/building-positive-body-image-with-a-gigolo/https://gigolo-victor.com/en/blog/relations/building-positive-body-image-with-a-gigolo/How booking a gigolo can help you build a more positive body image, real confidence, and lasting self-acceptance.Fri, 01 Nov 2024 00:00:00 GMThttps://gigolo-victor.com/en/blog/connection/depth/gigolo-for-deep-connection-and-adventure/https://gigolo-victor.com/en/blog/connection/depth/gigolo-for-deep-connection-and-adventure/A gigolo for deep connection and adventure. One evening shaped around you, at your pace and on your terms.Tue, 29 Oct 2024 00:00:00 GMThttps://gigolo-victor.com/en/blog/connection/depth/gigolo-for-women-seeking-real-connection/https://gigolo-victor.com/en/blog/connection/depth/gigolo-for-women-seeking-real-connection/A gigolo for women seeking emotional connection, where you are seen and heard, without judgment or hurry.Mon, 28 Oct 2024 00:00:00 GMThttps://gigolo-victor.com/en/blog/quality-time-and-sincerity-with-a-male-escort/https://gigolo-victor.com/en/blog/quality-time-and-sincerity-with-a-male-escort/Quality time and genuine attention with a male escort. Deep talks, real connection, and moments of pure joy.Fri, 25 Oct 2024 00:00:00 GMThttps://gigolo-victor.com/en/blog/relations/keeping-sex-exciting-after-kids-womens-guide/https://gigolo-victor.com/en/blog/relations/keeping-sex-exciting-after-kids-womens-guide/Bring the spark back into your sex life after kids with open communication, quality time, self-care, and even considering a gigolo.Fri, 25 Oct 2024 00:00:00 GMThttps://gigolo-victor.com/en/blog/gigolo-reviews-and-experiences/https://gigolo-victor.com/en/blog/gigolo-reviews-and-experiences/Real reviews and experiences from women who met Victor: on trust, safety, intimacy and personal growth within their own boundaries.Tue, 22 Oct 2024 00:00:00 GMThttps://gigolo-victor.com/en/blog/bdsm/aftercare/why-aftercare-is-crucial-after-bdsm/https://gigolo-victor.com/en/blog/bdsm/aftercare/why-aftercare-is-crucial-after-bdsm/Aftercare after BDSM is not an afterthought. Why it matters so much for women, and what to look for when you book a gigolo.Sun, 20 Oct 2024 00:00:00 GMThttps://gigolo-victor.com/en/blog/sex/erotic-stories/the-beach/https://gigolo-victor.com/en/blog/sex/erotic-stories/the-beach/A sultry erotic tale of a night of passion and desire on a secluded beach beneath a canopy of stars.Tue, 15 Oct 2024 00:00:00 GMThttps://gigolo-victor.com/en/blog/sex/deep-throating-pleasure-of-deep-sensations/https://gigolo-victor.com/en/blog/sex/deep-throating-pleasure-of-deep-sensations/Discover deep throating: why it excites women, plus techniques for relaxation, breathing, and communication for deeper pleasure.Sat, 12 Oct 2024 00:00:00 GMThttps://gigolo-victor.com/en/blog/bdsm/whips/benefits-of-whipping-in-bdsm/https://gigolo-victor.com/en/blog/bdsm/whips/benefits-of-whipping-in-bdsm/The benefits of whipping in BDSM: less stress, less lingering pain, and a deeper connection with your partner.Mon, 09 Sep 2024 00:00:00 GMThttps://gigolo-victor.com/en/blog/relations/hiring-a-gigolo-to-improve-relationships/https://gigolo-victor.com/en/blog/relations/hiring-a-gigolo-to-improve-relationships/See how hiring a professional gigolo can lift your confidence, sharpen communication, and bring fresh energy to your love life.Sat, 07 Sep 2024 00:00:00 GMT