https://gigolo-victor.com/en/blogBDSMenhttps://gigolo-victor.com/en/blog/bdsm/podcast-interview-what-bdsm-really-is/https://gigolo-victor.com/en/blog/bdsm/podcast-interview-what-bdsm-really-is/Jolanda from Brabants Meisje interviews Victor about what BDSM really is, beyond the whips, about dominance and why it stays equal for him.Sat, 15 Aug 2026 00:00:00 GMThttps://gigolo-victor.com/en/blog/bdsm/medical-play-without-a-white-coat/https://gigolo-victor.com/en/blog/bdsm/medical-play-without-a-white-coat/The most-played form of medical play uses no instrument at all. What happens instead, why lying still works, and where the law begins.Wed, 12 Aug 2026 00:00:00 GMThttps://gigolo-victor.com/en/blog/bdsm/your-first-play-party/https://gigolo-victor.com/en/blog/bdsm/your-first-play-party/What happens at a play party, who the DM is, how the house rules work, and why watching is the most normal thing to do all evening.Wed, 12 Aug 2026 00:00:00 GMThttps://gigolo-victor.com/en/blog/bdsm/partner-not-into-bdsm/https://gigolo-victor.com/en/blog/bdsm/partner-not-into-bdsm/You have a BDSM fantasy and your partner isn't into it. What you can and can't do, how to have the conversation, and why pushing backfires.Fri, 07 Aug 2026 00:00:00 GMThttps://gigolo-victor.com/en/blog/bdsm/rent-a-bdsm-room/https://gigolo-victor.com/en/blog/bdsm/rent-a-bdsm-room/BDSM rooms and SM play spaces for rent across the Netherlands, Belgium, France and Germany: SM cottages, SM B&Bs, setup, prices and what to check.Mon, 27 Jul 2026 00:00:00 GMThttps://gigolo-victor.com/en/blog/bdsm/podcast-interview-victor-on-bdsm-and-being-a-gigolo/https://gigolo-victor.com/en/blog/bdsm/podcast-interview-victor-on-bdsm-and-being-a-gigolo/The full transcript of BDSM Vrouw Podcast #35, where Mistress Moria asks Victor about his work, his limits, aftercare, and the taboo around a gigolo.Wed, 22 Jul 2026 00:00:00 GMThttps://gigolo-victor.com/en/blog/bdsm/bdsm-for-beginners-women/https://gigolo-victor.com/en/blog/bdsm/bdsm-for-beginners-women/BDSM for beginners: how you try it safely as a woman, at your own pace, with clear limits set beforehand and real aftercare afterward.Fri, 03 Jul 2026 00:00:00 GMThttps://gigolo-victor.com/en/blog/relations/married-to-a-gigolo-1-the-introduction/https://gigolo-victor.com/en/blog/relations/married-to-a-gigolo-1-the-introduction/Anna, a newly divorced mum of two, places her first BDSM ad and meets gigolo Victor. Part 1 of her true story.Sun, 25 Jan 2026 00:00:00 GMThttps://gigolo-victor.com/en/blog/relations/married-to-a-gigolo-2-first-bdsm-date/https://gigolo-victor.com/en/blog/relations/married-to-a-gigolo-2-first-bdsm-date/Heart pounding, Anna drives to her first BDSM date with Victor and discovers a safe, thrilling side of herself. Part 2 of her story.Sun, 25 Jan 2026 00:00:00 GMThttps://gigolo-victor.com/en/blog/relations/married-to-a-gigolo-6-the-bdsm-parties-are-exciting/https://gigolo-victor.com/en/blog/relations/married-to-a-gigolo-6-the-bdsm-parties-are-exciting/Anna and Victor deepen their bond through intense sex and BDSM parties, and marry in secret. The finale of her remarkable story.Sun, 25 Jan 2026 00:00:00 GMThttps://gigolo-victor.com/en/blog/hiring-a-bdsm-gigolo-why-not/https://gigolo-victor.com/en/blog/hiring-a-bdsm-gigolo-why-not/Curious about your submissive side? Here is why hiring me, a professional BDSM gigolo in Amsterdam, is the safest first step into surrender.Sat, 01 Nov 2025 00:00:00 GMThttps://gigolo-victor.com/en/blog/bdsm/bondage/what-is-mummification/https://gigolo-victor.com/en/blog/bdsm/bondage/what-is-mummification/What is mummification in BDSM? How full surrender, trust, and being wrapped completely still turn into deep, intense arousal.Sat, 11 Oct 2025 00:00:00 GMThttps://gigolo-victor.com/en/blog/bdsm/spanking/what-is-spanking/https://gigolo-victor.com/en/blog/bdsm/spanking/what-is-spanking/What is spanking, and why can a smack feel like pain one second and pleasure the next? Buildup, surrender, and safe play with consent.Sat, 11 Oct 2025 00:00:00 GMThttps://gigolo-victor.com/en/blog/gigolo-services-with-special-packages/https://gigolo-victor.com/en/blog/gigolo-services-with-special-packages/From a low-key coffee date and boyfriend experience to BDSM and role play, here are the gigolo services and special packages I offer, at one clear rate.Sat, 11 Oct 2025 00:00:00 GMThttps://gigolo-victor.com/en/blog/media/how-i-became-a-dominant/https://gigolo-victor.com/en/blog/media/how-i-became-a-dominant/How I became a dominant: from a shy boy to a BDSM gigolo. My first BDSM experience in a hotel set it all in motion.Thu, 22 May 2025 00:00:00 GMThttps://gigolo-victor.com/en/blog/sex/erotic-stories/captured/https://gigolo-victor.com/en/blog/sex/erotic-stories/captured/A searing erotic story of surrender, blindfolded and bound in the hands of a mysterious, dominant lover who knows exactly how to play your body.Fri, 27 Dec 2024 00:00:00 GMThttps://gigolo-victor.com/en/blog/bdsm/humiliation/types-of-humiliation-in-bdsm/https://gigolo-victor.com/en/blog/bdsm/humiliation/types-of-humiliation-in-bdsm/Which kinds of humiliation do women find arousing in BDSM? I walk through the types, from verbal to physical to public, always safe and consensual.Wed, 18 Dec 2024 00:00:00 GMThttps://gigolo-victor.com/en/blog/bdsm/bondage/mouth-gags-in-bdsm/https://gigolo-victor.com/en/blog/bdsm/bondage/mouth-gags-in-bdsm/Mouth gags in BDSM explained: how a ball gag sharpens your senses and deepens surrender, with safety and communication first.Mon, 16 Dec 2024 00:00:00 GMThttps://gigolo-victor.com/en/blog/bdsm/pain/needle-play-and-body-awareness/https://gigolo-victor.com/en/blog/bdsm/pain/needle-play-and-body-awareness/BDSM for women: how needle play, surrender, and body awareness bring you closer to yourself. Safe, with consent and RACK.Sun, 15 Dec 2024 00:00:00 GMThttps://gigolo-victor.com/en/blog/bdsm/dangers/what-is-breath-play/https://gigolo-victor.com/en/blog/bdsm/dangers/what-is-breath-play/What is breath play? I explain how breath play works safely and sensually, with real guidance on trust, consent, and technique.Tue, 10 Dec 2024 00:00:00 GMThttps://gigolo-victor.com/en/blog/bdsm/dominance/cnc-examples-for-women/https://gigolo-victor.com/en/blog/bdsm/dominance/cnc-examples-for-women/What is consensual non-consent (CNC)? Real examples, the psychology behind it, and how to explore this fantasy play safely with a partner.Tue, 10 Dec 2024 00:00:00 GMThttps://gigolo-victor.com/en/blog/bdsm/bondage/confinement-in-bdsm/https://gigolo-victor.com/en/blog/bdsm/bondage/confinement-in-bdsm/Confinement in BDSM is physical restriction, vulnerability, and deep surrender, with full care for safety, a safeword, RACK, and loving aftercare.Sat, 07 Dec 2024 00:00:00 GMThttps://gigolo-victor.com/en/blog/bdsm/dominance/discipline-in-bdsm/https://gigolo-victor.com/en/blog/bdsm/dominance/discipline-in-bdsm/Why discipline in BDSM works, from the power dynamic to the emotional release and the deeper trust it builds between two partners.Fri, 06 Dec 2024 00:00:00 GMThttps://gigolo-victor.com/en/blog/bdsm/bondage/bdsm-hoods-sensory-deprivation/https://gigolo-victor.com/en/blog/bdsm/bondage/bdsm-hoods-sensory-deprivation/What a BDSM hood does to your senses, how surrender really feels, and why safety and trust always come first.Thu, 05 Dec 2024 00:00:00 GMThttps://gigolo-victor.com/en/blog/sex/erotic-stories/the-abduction/https://gigolo-victor.com/en/blog/sex/erotic-stories/the-abduction/A thrilling erotic story in which, on a storm-swept night, fear of a masked intruder turns into unexpected arousal and willing surrender.Thu, 05 Dec 2024 00:00:00 GMThttps://gigolo-victor.com/en/blog/bdsm/humiliation/shame-in-bdsm/https://gigolo-victor.com/en/blog/bdsm/humiliation/shame-in-bdsm/Sharing shame in BDSM with your partner builds trust and brings emotional release. How to do it safely, with consent and aftercare.Wed, 04 Dec 2024 00:00:00 GMThttps://gigolo-victor.com/en/blog/bdsm/dominance/the-thrill-of-roughness/https://gigolo-victor.com/en/blog/bdsm/dominance/the-thrill-of-roughness/The thrill of roughness in BDSM: how control and surrender turn you on, and how to explore it safely and with trust.Tue, 03 Dec 2024 00:00:00 GMThttps://gigolo-victor.com/en/blog/bdsm/humiliation/objectification-in-bdsm/https://gigolo-victor.com/en/blog/bdsm/humiliation/objectification-in-bdsm/Objectification in bdsm can feel freeing instead of degrading. How surrender as an object works, and why it stays safe with mutual respect.Tue, 03 Dec 2024 00:00:00 GMThttps://gigolo-victor.com/en/blog/connection/communication/sharing-fantasies-with-your-partner/https://gigolo-victor.com/en/blog/connection/communication/sharing-fantasies-with-your-partner/Sharing fantasies with your partner takes courage, and it builds trust and intimacy. Victor explains how to do it safely and thrillingly.Mon, 02 Dec 2024 00:00:00 GMThttps://gigolo-victor.com/en/blog/bdsm/bondage/spreader-bar-in-bdsm/https://gigolo-victor.com/en/blog/bdsm/bondage/spreader-bar-in-bdsm/Spreader bar BDSM: how restricted movement opens the way to deep surrender, explored safely, with trust and no rush, at your own pace.Sun, 01 Dec 2024 00:00:00 GMThttps://gigolo-victor.com/en/blog/bdsm/dangers/hidden-dangers-of-choke-play/https://gigolo-victor.com/en/blog/bdsm/dangers/hidden-dangers-of-choke-play/Choke play feels intense, but the risks are real. Where the danger in breath play actually sits, and how to explore it far more carefully.Wed, 27 Nov 2024 00:00:00 GMThttps://gigolo-victor.com/en/blog/bdsm/dominance/consensual-non-consent-with-a-gigolo/https://gigolo-victor.com/en/blog/bdsm/dominance/consensual-non-consent-with-a-gigolo/Consensual non-consent with a gigolo: how to explore a CNC scenario safely, with clear agreements, trust, and aftercare.Tue, 26 Nov 2024 00:00:00 GMThttps://gigolo-victor.com/en/blog/bdsm/dominance/crawling-in-bdsm/https://gigolo-victor.com/en/blog/bdsm/dominance/crawling-in-bdsm/Crawling in BDSM stands for surrender, trust, and sensual humiliation. Why it moves so many women, and how to explore it safely at your own pace.Mon, 25 Nov 2024 00:00:00 GMThttps://gigolo-victor.com/en/blog/bdsm/humiliation/ignore-play-in-bdsm/https://gigolo-victor.com/en/blog/bdsm/humiliation/ignore-play-in-bdsm/Discover why being ignored works as a kink, from sensual surrender to deliberately letting go of control.Mon, 25 Nov 2024 00:00:00 GMThttps://gigolo-victor.com/en/blog/bdsm/spanking/caning-in-bdsm/https://gigolo-victor.com/en/blog/bdsm/spanking/caning-in-bdsm/Caning in BDSM explained: types of canes, technique, safety, and why trust is the real thrill. Victor shares what he has learned.Sat, 23 Nov 2024 00:00:00 GMThttps://gigolo-victor.com/en/blog/bdsm/pain/face-slapping-in-bdsm/https://gigolo-victor.com/en/blog/bdsm/pain/face-slapping-in-bdsm/What does it mean to be slapped in the face consensually in BDSM? Victor on pain play, trust, and safe surrender.Fri, 22 Nov 2024 00:00:00 GMThttps://gigolo-victor.com/en/blog/bdsm/whips/bdsm-whip-session-with-a-gigolo/https://gigolo-victor.com/en/blog/bdsm/whips/bdsm-whip-session-with-a-gigolo/A good whip session runs on trust and surrender. Here is how an experienced BDSM gigolo makes it safe and intense for you.Fri, 22 Nov 2024 00:00:00 GMThttps://gigolo-victor.com/en/blog/bdsm/whips/singletail-whip-in-bdsm/https://gigolo-victor.com/en/blog/bdsm/whips/singletail-whip-in-bdsm/The singletail whip explained: preparation, technique, and aftercare for sensual BDSM play that stays safe and still throws real sparks.Thu, 21 Nov 2024 00:00:00 GMThttps://gigolo-victor.com/en/blog/bdsm/bondage/metal-cuffs-and-chains/https://gigolo-victor.com/en/blog/bdsm/bondage/metal-cuffs-and-chains/Metal cuffs and chains in BDSM: what cold steel does for control and surrender, and why safety, consent, and aftercare come first.Mon, 11 Nov 2024 00:00:00 GMThttps://gigolo-victor.com/en/blog/bdsm/pain/nipple-clamps-in-bdsm/https://gigolo-victor.com/en/blog/bdsm/pain/nipple-clamps-in-bdsm/Nipple clamps for women in BDSM: the types, safe tips, and how one small clamp can heighten arousal and connection.Sun, 10 Nov 2024 00:00:00 GMThttps://gigolo-victor.com/en/blog/bdsm/whips/pleasure-of-a-rubber-whip/https://gigolo-victor.com/en/blog/bdsm/whips/pleasure-of-a-rubber-whip/What makes a rubber whip exciting in BDSM, from sensation and trust to consent, and how it deepens intimacy between two people.Sat, 09 Nov 2024 00:00:00 GMThttps://gigolo-victor.com/en/blog/bdsm/whips/riding-crop-in-bdsm/https://gigolo-victor.com/en/blog/bdsm/whips/riding-crop-in-bdsm/Riding crop in BDSM explained: technique, feel, and safety. How pleasure and pain come together, with Victor as your experienced guide.Fri, 08 Nov 2024 00:00:00 GMThttps://gigolo-victor.com/en/blog/bdsm/pain/sharp-and-dull-pain-in-bdsm/https://gigolo-victor.com/en/blog/bdsm/pain/sharp-and-dull-pain-in-bdsm/Sharp and dull pain in BDSM feel completely different. What each one does to you, and how to discover safely which kind suits you.Thu, 07 Nov 2024 00:00:00 GMThttps://gigolo-victor.com/en/blog/bdsm/whips/metal-whip-in-bdsm/https://gigolo-victor.com/en/blog/bdsm/whips/metal-whip-in-bdsm/A metal whip in BDSM: what it is, how to use it safely, and the intense sensations cold steel can give. Explained plainly and honestly.Thu, 07 Nov 2024 00:00:00 GMThttps://gigolo-victor.com/en/blog/bdsm/pain/nipple-pinching-in-bdsm/https://gigolo-victor.com/en/blog/bdsm/pain/nipple-pinching-in-bdsm/Nipple pinching in BDSM: how pain turns into pleasure, what it asks of trust and safety, and how aftercare completes it.Sun, 03 Nov 2024 00:00:00 GMThttps://gigolo-victor.com/en/blog/bdsm/spanking/paddle-play/https://gigolo-victor.com/en/blog/bdsm/spanking/paddle-play/What a paddle does to your body and mind, the physical pleasure and emotional release, and why trust and safety make it work.Sat, 02 Nov 2024 00:00:00 GMThttps://gigolo-victor.com/en/blog/bdsm/whips/bullwhip-in-bdsm/https://gigolo-victor.com/en/blog/bdsm/whips/bullwhip-in-bdsm/The bullwhip in BDSM: safe, sensual whip play built up step by step toward tension, surrender, and pleasure, even for beginners.Sat, 02 Nov 2024 00:00:00 GMThttps://gigolo-victor.com/en/blog/bdsm/dangers/safeword/https://gigolo-victor.com/en/blog/bdsm/dangers/safeword/A safeword is your stop button in BDSM. Here is how the traffic-light system lets you play safely and dare to go further.Fri, 01 Nov 2024 00:00:00 GMThttps://gigolo-victor.com/en/blog/bdsm/whips/horsehair-whip/https://gigolo-victor.com/en/blog/bdsm/whips/horsehair-whip/A horsehair whip feels soft but can tingle in surprising ways. Why it is an ideal first whip for beginners in BDSM play.Fri, 01 Nov 2024 00:00:00 GMThttps://gigolo-victor.com/en/blog/bdsm/pain/hot-wax-play-in-bdsm/https://gigolo-victor.com/en/blog/bdsm/pain/hot-wax-play-in-bdsm/Hot wax play in BDSM for women: safe techniques, scenarios, and tips to explore this kind of play with confidence.Wed, 30 Oct 2024 00:00:00 GMThttps://gigolo-victor.com/en/blog/bdsm/bondage/the-art-of-bondage/https://gigolo-victor.com/en/blog/bdsm/bondage/the-art-of-bondage/Bondage for women: my honest examples, games, and tips for playing safely with rope, trust, and surrender.Tue, 29 Oct 2024 00:00:00 GMThttps://gigolo-victor.com/en/blog/bdsm/bondage/captivity-fantasy/https://gigolo-victor.com/en/blog/bdsm/bondage/captivity-fantasy/The psychology behind the captivity fantasy: power, surrender and control, and how to explore it safely and consensually.Mon, 28 Oct 2024 00:00:00 GMThttps://gigolo-victor.com/en/blog/bdsm/whips/the-art-of-whipping/https://gigolo-victor.com/en/blog/bdsm/whips/the-art-of-whipping/The art of whipping, from types of whips to technique and safety, by a gigolo with 25 years of BDSM experience in Amsterdam.Mon, 28 Oct 2024 00:00:00 GMThttps://gigolo-victor.com/en/blog/sex/erotic-stories/discreet-lucas/https://gigolo-victor.com/en/blog/sex/erotic-stories/discreet-lucas/A sensual story in which Anne and her husband David explore their deepest desires for dominance and surrender with the discreet Lucas.Fri, 25 Oct 2024 00:00:00 GMThttps://gigolo-victor.com/en/blog/sex/erotic-stories/a-willing-prisoner-of-his-own-desires/https://gigolo-victor.com/en/blog/sex/erotic-stories/a-willing-prisoner-of-his-own-desires/Erotic story: Laura and her husband Markus explore their darkest desires with the discreet gigolo Alex over one intense evening.Fri, 25 Oct 2024 00:00:00 GMThttps://gigolo-victor.com/en/blog/bdsm/dominance/orgasm-control-in-bdsm/https://gigolo-victor.com/en/blog/bdsm/dominance/orgasm-control-in-bdsm/Orgasm control in bdsm: how power, surrender, and consent build desire into an intense climax. Read how I do this with you.Thu, 24 Oct 2024 00:00:00 GMThttps://gigolo-victor.com/en/blog/bdsm/whips/why-you-need-an-experienced-gigolo-for-whip-play/https://gigolo-victor.com/en/blog/bdsm/whips/why-you-need-an-experienced-gigolo-for-whip-play/Whip play takes trust, technique, and a steady hand. Here is why an experienced gigolo makes BDSM safe and exciting at once.Wed, 23 Oct 2024 00:00:00 GMThttps://gigolo-victor.com/en/blog/bdsm/dangers/choke-play-for-women/https://gigolo-victor.com/en/blog/bdsm/dangers/choke-play-for-women/Choke play for women: the psychology, safety, communication, and aftercare around breath control. Honest and without judgment.Tue, 22 Oct 2024 00:00:00 GMThttps://gigolo-victor.com/en/blog/bdsm/whips/cat-o-nine-tails/https://gigolo-victor.com/en/blog/bdsm/whips/cat-o-nine-tails/All about the cat-o-nine-tails: types, technique, and how to learn to flog safely and with confidence.Tue, 22 Oct 2024 00:00:00 GMThttps://gigolo-victor.com/en/blog/bdsm/spanking/the-art-of-spanking/https://gigolo-victor.com/en/blog/bdsm/spanking/the-art-of-spanking/Spanking for women: the techniques, the safety, and my take as a gigolo on impact play that stays sensual and exciting.Mon, 21 Oct 2024 00:00:00 GMThttps://gigolo-victor.com/en/blog/bdsm/whips/types-of-whips-in-bdsm/https://gigolo-victor.com/en/blog/bdsm/whips/types-of-whips-in-bdsm/Every type of whip in BDSM lined up, from flogger to bullwhip, and how you can enjoy the sensation each one brings.Mon, 21 Oct 2024 00:00:00 GMThttps://gigolo-victor.com/en/blog/bdsm/aftercare/why-aftercare-is-crucial-after-bdsm/https://gigolo-victor.com/en/blog/bdsm/aftercare/why-aftercare-is-crucial-after-bdsm/Aftercare after BDSM is not an afterthought. Why it matters so much for women, and what to look for when you book a gigolo.Sun, 20 Oct 2024 00:00:00 GMThttps://gigolo-victor.com/en/blog/bdsm/feedback-in-bdsm/https://gigolo-victor.com/en/blog/bdsm/feedback-in-bdsm/Feedback in BDSM builds trust and safety. Here is how open communication changes everything, also when you book a gigolo.Sun, 20 Oct 2024 00:00:00 GMThttps://gigolo-victor.com/en/blog/bdsm/pain/hard-vs-soft-pain-in-bdsm/https://gigolo-victor.com/en/blog/bdsm/pain/hard-vs-soft-pain-in-bdsm/The difference between hard and soft pain in BDSM: what it opens up, how to explore it safely, and why nothing is wrong with you.Sun, 20 Oct 2024 00:00:00 GMThttps://gigolo-victor.com/en/blog/bdsm/bondage/shibari-and-connective-kink/https://gigolo-victor.com/en/blog/bdsm/bondage/shibari-and-connective-kink/Shibari rope bondage and connective kink, explained through aesthetics, trust, and a gentle way to begin as a beginner.Sat, 19 Oct 2024 00:00:00 GMThttps://gigolo-victor.com/en/blog/bdsm/pain/nipple-play-for-women/https://gigolo-victor.com/en/blog/bdsm/pain/nipple-play-for-women/Nipple play in BDSM: how firm pinching, touch, and trust can grow your arousal and your confidence.Sat, 19 Oct 2024 00:00:00 GMThttps://gigolo-victor.com/en/blog/bdsm/dangers/what-is-choke-and-blood-choke-play/https://gigolo-victor.com/en/blog/bdsm/dangers/what-is-choke-and-blood-choke-play/What is blood-choke play, exactly? How it works, why it turns people on, and which safety rules are never up for negotiation.Fri, 18 Oct 2024 00:00:00 GMThttps://gigolo-victor.com/en/blog/bdsm/pain/hair-pulling-in-bdsm/https://gigolo-victor.com/en/blog/bdsm/pain/hair-pulling-in-bdsm/Hair pulling in BDSM: how it deepens arousal, surrender, and trust, with safe technique and real scenarios for women.Sun, 13 Oct 2024 00:00:00 GMThttps://gigolo-victor.com/en/blog/bdsm/consent-in-bdsm/https://gigolo-victor.com/en/blog/bdsm/consent-in-bdsm/Why consent is the backbone of safe BDSM, from limits and safe words to ongoing agreement and aftercare, so you play from trust.Sat, 12 Oct 2024 00:00:00 GMThttps://gigolo-victor.com/en/blog/bdsm/dangers/breath-vs-choke-play/https://gigolo-victor.com/en/blog/bdsm/dangers/breath-vs-choke-play/What's the difference between breath play and choke play? The technique, the safety, and the psychology, for anyone curious.Sat, 12 Oct 2024 00:00:00 GMThttps://gigolo-victor.com/en/blog/bdsm/bondage/blindfold-play-in-bdsm/https://gigolo-victor.com/en/blog/bdsm/bondage/blindfold-play-in-bdsm/Blindfold play in BDSM sharpens your senses and deepens trust. How taking sight away leads to more surrender and pleasure.Fri, 11 Oct 2024 00:00:00 GMThttps://gigolo-victor.com/en/blog/bdsm/dangers/safety-in-bdsm/https://gigolo-victor.com/en/blog/bdsm/dangers/safety-in-bdsm/BDSM safety runs on the traffic-light system and safewords. Here is how you guard your limits and still let go completely.Tue, 01 Oct 2024 00:00:00 GMThttps://gigolo-victor.com/en/blog/bdsm/dominance/a-dominant-gigolo/https://gigolo-victor.com/en/blog/bdsm/dominance/a-dominant-gigolo/Booking a dominant gigolo, why being dominated is such a powerful fantasy and how power exchange feels safe and trusted.Wed, 11 Sep 2024 00:00:00 GMThttps://gigolo-victor.com/en/blog/bdsm/whips/benefits-of-whipping-in-bdsm/https://gigolo-victor.com/en/blog/bdsm/whips/benefits-of-whipping-in-bdsm/The benefits of whipping in BDSM: less stress, less lingering pain, and a deeper connection with your partner.Mon, 09 Sep 2024 00:00:00 GMThttps://gigolo-victor.com/en/blog/bdsm/spanking/the-art-of-paddling/https://gigolo-victor.com/en/blog/bdsm/spanking/the-art-of-paddling/The art of paddling: techniques, materials, and safety in paddle play. How sensation turns into pleasure, with consent and trust.Sun, 08 Sep 2024 00:00:00 GMThttps://gigolo-victor.com/en/blog/bdsm/pain/why-hire-a-bdsm-gigolo-to-feel-pain/https://gigolo-victor.com/en/blog/bdsm/pain/why-hire-a-bdsm-gigolo-to-feel-pain/Why feeling pain with a BDSM gigolo can be freeing: exploring your limits, letting go, and safe surrender, told by Victor.Mon, 02 Sep 2024 00:00:00 GMThttps://gigolo-victor.com/en/blog/bdsm/whips/how-to-use-a-flogger/https://gigolo-victor.com/en/blog/bdsm/whips/how-to-use-a-flogger/How to use a flogger: the types, the technique, and the safety, told by Victor, for more pleasure and more trust.Mon, 02 Sep 2024 00:00:00 GMThttps://gigolo-victor.com/en/blog/bdsm/dominance/consensual-non-consent-in-bdsm/https://gigolo-victor.com/en/blog/bdsm/dominance/consensual-non-consent-in-bdsm/What is consensual non-consent in BDSM? I explain how CNC works, where the limits sit, and what makes it so powerful.Sat, 01 Jun 2024 00:00:00 GMT